Would you risk it?? be honest....?

Question

Let's say you are extremely modest in all areas but all the men in your life(even the ones you never dated) have abused you in every way possible. They don't take no for an answer and they keep persisting even taking advantage of you physically.

Then you meet a guy who've you been friends with for 4 years. When you think about how he's treated you and what he's done to and for you it makes you cry. He loves and respects you as a person and a woman. He gives you space and when you say no he leaves you alone and doesn't persist. He's the first healthy relationship you've had with a guy. You are in love with him not just for this reason.

Would you tell him how you feel or would you hold this relationship sacred and refuse to risk it afraid of losing him as a friend?

He's stuck by you at your worst while most guys would have run for the hills. No matter what you said or did to him he is unconditional to you.

So again would you risk this relationship and tell him you'd like to be more than friends eventually or hold your friendship with him sacred and don't say anything?

You guys are in your mid 20s, and single.

Answer 1

yes go for it. he probably feels the same for you. wow i wish a guy was that way towards me.

good luck

Answer 2

hunny go get him that sounds like prince chARMING! he is the one! i mean the one! did i say one! go get him sweetie!

Answer 3

If he truly adores you that much and respects you completely, I say continue to hold this relationship. It's the best thing you've had and it just continues as that. If I were this guy I wouldn't certainly be doing all this because I was just your friend. He truly loves you and I think it would make things even more wonderful if he knew how you felt. I see no reason in this dying. I see many reasons in how this will just grow.