Would you say that its weird...?

Question

For me to be so close to my sisters boyfriend? I hang out with him a lot and the other day when we were playing soccer at the park, I got into a coversation with him about s*x. I feel weird talking to anyone else about s*x, but I totally opened up about it while talking to him. He told me that I could always talk to him about it if I needed to and he didnt make it seem so terrible for me to say that I had been thinking about s*x. Hes around a lot because he and my sister just had a baby so Ive gotten even closer to him... So do you think its weird to have such a close relationship with him?

Answer 1

yes I wouldnt speak about s*x with him. Maybe turn to your sister in that situation.

Answer 2

I don't think it's weird at all. I was always close to my sister's boyfriends. They're like the older brother you never had (or would never talk about s*x with, lol).

Answer 3

No, i think its good, like an older brother.

Answer 4

Sort of weird, but sort of sweet. I think its good that your open with him, but don't let it get too far, because that WOULD be weird.

Answer 5

As long as it doesn't go any farther than a friendship, I think it's fine and even a good thing that you are able to talk to him about these kind of things. :)

Answer 6

no i dont think its weird if your sister knows how close you are. but if your engaging in flirting behaviour then it's wrong. you have to understand that now your sister has a baby that she will be a little off track for a whil because her hormones will be setling down and she may not feel up to s*x for a number of reasons. if her bf is talking openly with you about s*x then just watch that he isnt coming onto you and abusing your trust. you seem mature enough to know when things are getting too close. if you have a crush on her bf i think is beter if you tell him his openly to avoid any discomfort between you in the future. but i suggest you mention this o your sister see if she's fine with it and if she is there is no problem

Answer 7

yep, very wierd. Find some one else to talk to....

Answer 8

No, it isn't weird. But if you get too close and they break up then be prepared to do whatever you need to do if your sister doesn't want you to continue seeing him.

When I was about 14 and my sister's boyfriend (who she is now married to) well, we had quite the conversation... It was a good thing, and I needed the advise! It was healthy advise. It was something to the affect as- "you're too young- and don't do it"

  Coming from him though- I listened. To this day he's the coolest guy I know. I'm 21 now and he's 34.

I would just make sure he's giving you good advise and not advising you to make poor choices!