Would you say that the use of s*x toys somewhat a sin? Prior generations, was that part of their s*x life ?

Question

More and more women here admit of the use of a helper. Is it truly a need or product of their imagination ?

Answer 1

Whatever feel good to you .... it is not a sin some people just like the excitement that a toy can bring them....

Answer 2

First let me say that ladyren needs to seek God. There is no such thing as sin? You need help lady...

As for s*x toys I guess to each his own, but they can really be damaging in a marriage.

Here is a good rule of them that my Pastor suggest people use in making a decision.

Ask yourself "what would Jesus do" ? Or would I do that if Jesus were here????

Answer 3

s*x toys it is absolutely normal. How and our clothes or eat we need in them.

Try these s*x toys http://pleasuretoys.biz/

Answer 4

it is a need...

men have p**n, women use toys...

:D

if you can't handle it, leave.. ;)

Answer 5

s*x toys are cool. Don't think that Sister Mary down at the convent doesn't have a little pocket rocket hiding in her top drawer.

'Time to go say the rosary' :)

Answer 6

Helpers have been around for decades. What is important is what "helps" your experience as a couple. If you both are comfortable and nobody is getting hurt, who's to judge? Honest communication is the key.

Answer 7

I think that the fact you're seeing more and more women admit to having and using toys is due to the stigma being removed. People have always masturbated. But it was such a taboo issue in years past that no one dared produce a toy to help with it. Today sexuality is seen as the normal, healthy part of life that it is. you can thank the Kinsey report for that! Now there is a bigger demand for good s*x toys and the marketplace has answered that demand.

Answer 8

s*x toys are a useful part of a relationship.  Personally, at 51, I find my hormones have diminished unbelievably so s*x isn't as fulfilling as once it was.  s*x toys have helped in this situation and my husband is very understanding and doesn't feel threatened by them in any way.  Definitely the last thing you could say is that they are a sin.

Answer 9

As long as s*x is between a man and a woman who are married to each other, it is not a sin.  Men and women who are married also may m********e at times, but this should not become the sole means of sexual release.  Use of toys and masturbation is not sinful, but often fantasies, etc, that accompany masturbation are sinful.  Use of pornography is sinful.  s*x outside of marriage is sinful.  Masturbation alone is not sinful, but if pornography is used or if lustful thoughts accompany it, then those are sin.  What happens between a man and a woman who are married to each other in their bedroom is their choice - as long as they both are in agreement.  

Now, as a follow-up, many who read this will think that there is no such thing as sin or that sexual relationships in any way are okay.  The cold, hard truth is that the only way a sexual relationship is not sinful is if it is between a man and woman who are married to each other.  s*x before marriage, s*x with someone other than who you are married to, homosexual s*x, etc, all are sinful.

Answer 10

Sexology might say that toys have been around for a while.  Rather than a need, I'm thinking they see it as an option.

Answer 11

s*x toys have been around since prehistoric times, infact the modern day vibrator was invented by a physician in victorian times to help aleve /treat 'hysteria' in women.It caught on with other doctors. They would use it on a female patient until she would reach the 'desired conclusion', which they called 'then would suggest she use one herself at home for self treatment, much as one takes an aspirin for a headache.....see the article below for info..very interesting.

Answer 12

Oh, good grief!  Look - a number of years ago, the Roman resort villa, Pompey, that was buried by the famous eruption of Mt. Vesuvius was excavated, and it's just amazing how much is so very well preserved - including many paintings and friezes on the walls of public baths - which were attended by men and women and children.  Those clearly observable illustrations are open for public view today - and they show young women using s*x toys! So no, I don't think they're sinful and yes, they've been part of adult s*x lives since caveman days - which were ages BEFORE the tragic destruction of Pompey and Herculaneum.

Answer 13

First, there is no such thing as a sin.... get over that one.  

And masturbation  is even done by animals!

Answer 14

No, there's nothing at all wrong with s*x toys. Why would there be? There have been d****s and similar objects throughout history (they just weren't always battery operated).

No, a s*x toy isn't a "need" (neither is s*x). It is a desire for some...something that helps them to enjoy masturbation more than when just using their own hands.

Answer 15

s*x toys are fun.

My husband has never had an interest in using them with me but my boyfriend sure does.

My husband is 50 and im 35.

Married 15 yrs.

Answer 16

I don't think s*x toys are a sin, prior generations used vegetables.

Answer 17

Better using toys than sleep'n around =)