Would you stay in a relationship with a guy who always ask you to pay half of the bills?

Question

Would you stay with and have a relationship with a guy who always ask you to pay half of the bills in the restaurant,to pay your tickets for the concerts,theatre,movies,always moans how expensive is everything.And if he is super selfish.

Answer 1

never

Answer 2

If you don't like that and are more of a traditional female, find a traditional man. However, if you think that women should have the same rights as men and you can open a door for yourself or think you can decide for yourself who should run your country, pay your half. I'm sure in that situation, a guy would only be so frugal while dating, why waste money if you still haven't found the right girl? I'm not saying I would be like that but I can see where they would be coming from, unless he's making you pay more than 50%, its his choice, you in turn will then have a choice to finish with him or not.

Answer 3

HE is selfish?!?!?

OMG!

What would you call him then if he wanted you to pay for his stuff too?

Because that's what YOU want him to do for you.

I wouldn't stay in a relationship with you!

Answer 4

Off course if he cant afford. Why do some women think they are to be paid for, in all their lives. Just take responsibility and meet the guy halfway. It doesnt have to be 50/50 but taking some responsibility shows you care. Cost of living is too high.

Answer 5

No I wouldn't...not for long, anyway.  It's one thing for the girl to occasionally buy tickets or pay for dinner, but it's quite enough to be expected to do it all the time.

The only exception I could see for this would be if the girl was working, and the guy still in school.  Still, the guy should at least be working part time.

Answer 6

there is a difference between super selfish and asking you to pay half... get a life mate... earn more money... is it the fact that he doesnt worship you enough to pay for everything??

Answer 7

If he is always complaining about the cost of us going out, I will probably dump him.   Not because I have to pay my half of the bills going out.  I would do that with any other friend.  

Depending on how long we were together and before breaking it off, I would try to explain to him that his complaining about expenses is hurting our relationship.  I would also ask him if he had a viable substitute.  I would also try to compare his other attributes to his cheapside.  Is he intelligent, compassionate,  funny, handsome, financially stable, supportive  etc.