Would you stay or would you go?

Question

You have been talking to a person for about 3 months and things have been going really smooth...you hit it off really good and realize that this other person really likes you for you and you are developing feelings see a possible long term relationship and yall have respect for each other. This other person has been very patient when it comes to going to bed and yall have yet to have s*x but you find out it's because they have Herpes and didn't want to tell you at first...or until they got to know you well enough

What would you do?

Would you stop talking to someone because of this or would you give it a shot?

I want this to be a poll yes or no...opinions still welcome

It's a poll because I KNOW what Im doing. This man has treated me better than anyone I ever met before and he is very successful with his own home and car and no kids. He just wants someone to accept him for who he is. I am not going to stop talking to him because he is on treatments and it is under control. I am in the health field also and understand everything about herpes. people think that its so bad because it stays in your system but in actuality people may have an outbreak once or twice a year without treatment...some on treatment may NEVER show signs again. No rush to have s*x. We are enjoying each other too much to complicate things like that. I love how caring, honest and motivated he is and I DONT WANT TO F*CK IT UP lolololol

he doesn't have anything to worry about lol

Answer 1

yes, if u love him then stay  

Answer 2

I would not have a sexual relationship with someone who had an STD. Friendship yes but not a physical one.  

Answer 3

I'd stay.

But then, I have herpes, I am aware it is not a big deal and I would hope that someone would give me a shot.

Herpes is not what defines you, and it is very hurtful to meet people who reject you just because you have it.

I am lucky - I caught herpes from my boyfriend's cold sores (I have type 1 genitally) and he is fine with it, we have unprotected s*x. He previously had a girlfriend for several years that had hsv-2 which he never caught, and does not see it as a big deal. I wish everyone saw it like this.

Answer 4

stay, there are more reasons than s*x to be together!

Answer 5

I would be like "ewww" but i dont think i would stop talking to him just because of that fact.

Unless he has an outbreak, then go for it. He's under-going treatments for it, if you practise safe s*x, i honestly dont think you are under that much danger for contracting them... to be honest im not 100% sure about them.

But if you are really worried about catching them from him, then maybe you will just have to remain friends.

Answer 6

sounds like a good guy. if you know all of the possibilities and still like him then give it a shot.