A friend of mine, my husband's best-friend's fiance has asked me three times for my honest answer and I keep dodging the question. She leads the question and phrases it "I know we're having troubles but don't you think he's being unreasonable?" These two have a 16 month old child. They ended up moving in with her parents when her parents moved to another town because she didn't want to be away from her mom.
My honest answer to her would be:
"Jack" moved to another city, leaving his friends and family to make you happy. "Jack" moved into YOUR parents house to afford the move. "Jack" spent 2 months jobless because of the move while needing to provide for a wife and baby. "Jack" now pays more than half of YOUR parents rent and is not on speaking terms with them. "Jack" could have gotten you your own place 3 months ago but you didn't want to move our of YOUR mother's house. Now when YOUR mother picks a fight with him, you're not even on his side. He's out there with no friends, no family other than you and the little one, he's further away from his other daughter and you can't support him, you're going to drive him away VERY SOON!
I know to be a good friend one should be honest but I think she's looking for me to back her up not attack her. I also don't like getting involved in other peoples business like that, I'd rather keep my mouth shut but she keeps asking.
Would you tell her the truth?
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