Would you tell your BFF she was bad at...?

Question

cheerleading?

I talked my best friend into doing cheerleading with me and she's not very good. Every time I correct her she gets mad at me and when I don't want to practice she's like "That's because you're not as good as me and you're embarrassed".

Answer 1

Nope because my BFF is a cheerleader. And she's pretty good. Tell your friend to not get upset when someone tries to help her or gives her tips. As a cheerleader, she is gonna be critiqued a whole lot. She better get used to it.

Answer 2

nope..

i won't tell her.

Everyone has their weaknesses and so do I.  Let her know what was her weaknesses and she'll do the rest.  

Answer 3

try to sit down and talk to her.  NMay be she is right may be she is wrong I dont know. But one thing is that she should not be giving no attitude.

Answer 4

no! u guys rnt bff's.  ur just trying to diss each other!

Answer 5

No.

I would help her to improve, but I wouldn't just flat out tell her. I would be like, "Hey, you know, I think the coach wanted to do it this way." or "Can I show you a trick I learned?" Don't act like her coach either. Just be there, and act like her friend who wants to just give her some advice, not tell her what to do.

Cheers!

Answer 6

i know shes ure bessie, but at the end of the day if the squad or something have to pick one you you.. you want to be better! and not help her to get better than you!!! you are obviously good.. so dont waste time things like this are cut throat.. you have to be the best, not let someone else be because youve helped them :P

Answer 7

Let her think she's good. It doesn't really matter to you, right?  

Answer 8

no i wouldn't call her out like that.

i know your prob. frustrated or whatever with her but just

let her do what she wants to - if shes still is bad at it just suggest something like "hey i think the coach said this way" or "that doesn't look right try this" .

she might of said that because she knows shes bad at it. & wants you to feel bad as well because shes just jealous.if she keeps acting jealous just let her be bad at cheerleading she'll eventually be told by someone on your team & thats when she'll be open to you critisism & help.

Answer 9

that's mean.

she is so not ur bff.

bff's dont treat people like that.

stop hanging out with her.

tell her the truth.

if she yells at you...

tell her...

well i am sorry... i am just trying to make things better... but i guess its u who is throwing this relationship away.

Answer 10

i've had cheeleader friends that were bad and if you want your team to look good you better tell her

Answer 11

This is just your opinion.  You aren't using anyone else's as an example.  She may be good.  Some people don't like to be corrected.  Are you her coach?  If not, then let her be.  

Answer 12

lol i've totally told my bff that and she still thinks she's all that and a bag of chips in cheerleading. Find someone else whos like amazing at cheerleading to prove to your friend that she's not good. Unless ur good at cheerleading. there's not much else u can do.

Answer 13

If I were you , I would tell  her because  it's better for

you to tell her before someone else does .

:   -  )

x Arianna x

Answer 14

I'd tell her that I think it would be better if we didn't work together.

Answer 15

No,I wouldn't.

I can't sing,and my best friend doesn't say anything about it.

Answer 16

She's probably just playing around.

But, no I won't say she was BAD at it, I'll just help her improve.

And, to come to think of it, nobody is bad at cheerleading. Everyone can cheerlead.  

Answer 17

What are you 12 or something?

Answer 18

sit her down and set her stright.. let her know she not good at it and offer her your help so she can get better.. and if she gets mad well i dont think shes a good of a friend to you and saying something like that she is wrong for that.

Answer 19

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Answer 20

invite her to your house and teach her