Would you tell your bf/gf that you......??

Question

Let's say that, your in a relationship with a guy... and he doesn't like girl on girl.... Would you tell him from the start you were bi or later on when things get serious? And, if you were with a girl, but liked guys too... would you tell her? Or kind of hide everything so it wouldn't cause drama or breakups?

Answer 1

i think id tell them both from the out set it just prevents any drama that could happen when things do get more serious

Answer 2

Honesty is the best policy....I would tell him upfront...I just think that not telling will eventually cause drama unless you are faithful and same s*x feelings will not be a factor in your current relationship.  

Answer 3

well you should tell him/her now before things get serious. if u need a frien d then my email adress is [e-mail]

Answer 4

Unless you plan on basically having two relationships at once, I don't see what it would matter really. So your guy is not into girl on girl.. so what? Do you plan on having a girlfriend while you are still going out with him?

And personally, I think that if a guy would dump you just because you are bi, he definately wasn't ment for you. And since I am a strong believer that honnesty in a relationship is super important, I think you should tell him, and the sooner the better.

Answer 5

If you love someone and respect yourself, the best bet is to be honest as early as possible.  The longer a secret goes untold, the more power it has to hurt when it is finally revealed.  

Answer 6

well i would tell him when i'd start having feelings for that person... not 2 early so things won't finish b4 they'd end... and not 2 late cuz that would be hiding things from him

Answer 7

Not the first date, and probably not the second.  But before it gets *too* serious.  

Answer 8

im a L*****n but if i was bi i would tell him only if the ? came up ... in any way omission is betrayal lol  =]  

Answer 9

I have a bf who knows I'm bi and is fine with it. he's not into the girl on girl thing, nor does he wish to get involved in any way.

Answer 10

idk i still haven't figured out how to tell my boyfriend that iim bi-curious