Would you tell your father if your mother was ,,,,,?

Question

would you tell your father if you found out that your mother was having a love affair with another man?

Answer 1

yes but he probably wouldnt beleive me.

Answer 2

You should notify your father of your mother's infidelities immediately. Your father has every right to know how your mother has been unfaithful to him. I know that by telling your father the news, it may possibly jeopardize their marriage, but just keep in mind that the truth has come out. When you decide to tell him, break it to him slowly & gently because these will definitely come to him as a surprise. After informing him, have your father & mother figure out what the next step is. You did your part in telling him the truth, now all you can do is console each parent and respect whatever their decision may be.  

Answer 3

IT WUD BE BEST CUZ THAT WUD BE THA RITE THING TO DO THINK ABOUT IF YOU HAD KID AND THEY KNO YOU WAS GETTING CHEATED ON YOU WUD LOVE FOR YOUR KIDS TO TELL YOU

Answer 4

After posting an answer for you on your previous question with the roles reversed, I realize this is a hypothetical question.

Please refer to my answer concerning your father's infidelity.

Answer 5

nope i wouldnt

Answer 6

Wow.  I would, first, confront my mother about it.  I would ask her if she planned to end it with this other guy.  I think I would give my mother some time to tell my father herself because she owes him that.

Answer 7

NO.  You don't know the whole man & wife story.  What if your father had an affair that you don't know about and this is payback.  Even if that didn't happen and you tell your father and he kills your mom, how will you live with that?  What if your father already knows and would be embarrassed only because you know?  Too many what ifs.  Stay out of it except to approach your mom and ask for an explanation if you feel you must do something.

Answer 8

confront your mother first. find out if your 100% sure that she is. Then tell your father. He doesn't deserve to live in a lie. My father had an affair with another woman. My mom was crushed when she found out but at least she knew the truth. If it is true, tell your father. He deserves to know.

Answer 9

I would first reveal to your mother, in private, that you have gained  knowledge of her affair. I would listen to whatever she can or is willing to explain to you, if anything. Through this, you may acquire some hint as to whether or not there is something unpleasant going on between your father and mother. Also, if you ultimately do decide to be the one informing your father (out of concern, confusion, anger, rage, or even hatred), I would notify your mother first of what you intend to do.