Would you think it was weird if your husband owned had a collection of movies about women in prison?

Question

I don't mean pornos, I mean like actual movies, such as "Chained Heat". A woman is wrongfully accused of a crime and goes to jail.

I remember at one point in the movie, the women are used as the entertainment at the warden's party. A man is snorting cocaine as he watches one of them do a strip tease.

He's also got this DVD series called "Dangerous Women". It's a miniseries from the early 90s that chronicles the day to day life of wome in prison. Think "Oz" but with chicks.

I find it disturbing, but he's never acted weird or anything toward me.

So should I think nothing of it?

Answer 1

You might be interested in role playing... he might be into butch dominating "tough" women.

Then again, if the women are wrongfully accused, he might be more interested in subjugating the female

Answer 2

its not weird, its prob cos ur husband is examining can girls survive being in prison mroe than boys basically

Answer 3

Only worry if he's hiding it from you. But if you're curious, ask him about it- he is your husband.

Answer 4

h**l why don't you just get him lifetime its the same stories.

Answer 5

Well, to simply answer your question... yes I would think it was weird. But prisons, and girls in chains just ain't my thing. Ultimately though, it comes down to trust and a bit of communication and you probably need both on this one. If he's "never acted weird or anything" as you say, then yeah, I'd likely think nothing of it.

Everyone's different and although your husband may not like, say, a cooking show with nothing but dwarf hosts, he apparently digs him some "wimmen behind bars". I'm certain you have some tastes that he doesn't share your enthusiasm for but I also bet he doesn't find it "disturbing". I wouldn't get all over his *** about it but I'd probably ask carefully what the fascination is. If trust isn't an issue, then accept his answer and accept his fetish.

Good luck!

Answer 6

This is probably healthier than owning lord of the rings DVD sets.  I don't know about the others but Chained Heat is a minor classic, so it is no worse than owning say Casablanca.

Actually the name might be Caged Heat, which is directed by Silence of the Lambs director, Jonathan Demme.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Caged_Heat

Buy him some Russ Meyer women-in-prison movies and he'll think you are the best wife ever.

Answer 7

It is an odd fetish but I would talk to him about and find out what it is that appeals to him. Sounds harmless enough, and if he is good to you and is in all other ways, "normal" then I would not worry too much about it.