Would you trust him again? keeps getting caught...?

Question

My partner has only just recently told me that the things he has done with previous partners... well to a point he only tells what he wants....understandable...

But he has told me all these things like i was his first for this and that and that He's never done that with anyone else. Now he's forgetting heaps of stuff he's already confessed to....

But now we are moving and i have just found more letters and more girl's house directions and the last possible train times and i just feel like with what these girls are writing to him ... he's not well as he has made out. He even said to me last night ok.. i've been 99% honest with you... and i'm like... ok... what else was the lie...?

I feel like i've been totally conned and scammed by him. I have decided to not have s*x with him anymore. Bad idea i know.... but every time he touches me i feel like he's this dirty liar who is using me ... but here's the catch... he loves me and 'couldn't live without you' So i'm like ok, Their all from before... i'm over them,,,

but how do i get over the man i love and father of my daughter is lieing about something so special and intimate to me?

How do i ever let him touch me again? Intimately without feeling sick?

Answer 1

You can never trust him.  He is who he is.  You can wait forever, but he'll never change.  Let him be part of the childs life as her father, but you need to free yourself from that connection emotionally.  It's like a cancer that grows and grows.  

Answer 2

just leave him b4 u get to attached to him! your going 2 end  up pregnant or its going 2 be "to hard" to leave him if u stick around. Now is the time to act and LEAVE b4 u get to acctached.

Answer 3

Its hard, sometimes its better to move on...let him be in your daughter life tho... I wouldn't trust him tho. He should of been there for you as a one-to-one lover.... not that...  

Answer 4

Please tell me your not still with him?  He needs to deal with things deeper than the two of you...why does he keep lying?  Your still with him afterall, why can't he just come clean and stop?  

Does he want a serious relationship because it sounds like he is another have his cake and eat it too type of person.  

Be smart and put your daughter and yourself before him.