Would you try to find your birthparents or at least their address to send a letter?

Question

or would you just leave them alone and just remain curious about them for the rest of your life? (This is mostly directed to adoptees, but others can answer too)

Answer 1

i recommend that you get all the info that you can about them then make ur decision.  

Answer 2

i would try to find all the information that i can about them..

i mean, you want to know about your biological parents don't you?

its normal, your curious, your interested even if they may not be interested in you. They are your parents even if they feel like they've failed and they cant be with you.. you should send them a letter just to let them know that your okay and how things are going and hopfeully one day you guys get to meet and talk about stuff that need to be shared :)

Answer 3

I was adopted and found out at 9. When I was 18 I found my real mother and she turned out to be a huge disappointment too me. I was glad i did it but keep in mind not to get your hopes up.