Would you wait to have s*x with someone you really like, if they said they were waiting till marriage?

Question

i think i could do it! well i am a virgin and 22. but like if i really liked the person i wouldn't force them to do anything they don't wanna do!

Answer 1

yeah,especially if they have respected me the whole time.

Love is more important than rushing s*x because if only one is truly ready,it wont be as special as it would have been if you would have waited.

Answer 2

It depends on how long the wait is. Do you love him? That matters. Seriously I have tried this before, but once you two start making out and then some, it will be VERY difficult to wait. You'll have to have a lot of will power to stop. It can be done, but it might be very frustrating, especially since you like him a lot.  

Answer 3

its called respect.

i think if the person respected you they would

Answer 4

I am a 19 year old guy and I'm a virgin. Yeah I know I could. I don't want to, and wouldn't be to happy lol but I would if I really loved her. It would be worth it to me.

As long as she is also a virgin. I once dated a girl who had been with a couple guys.... But then decided to settle her self down and didn't wanna have s*x anymore. That one kinda pissed me off to be honest...if she already gave it all away, why should "I" have to wait? Thats not fair to switch the rules. But I never pushed her, never said a word about it...but inside I was angry lol.

Answer 5

It depends. If you love a person - you love them for who they are on the inside and you're really attracted to them, then you know it's going to be right on your first time anyway. So if your partner wants to wait, then why not? Personally i'm not opposed to s*x before you marry.... As long as you've been with the person long enough to know you properly love them, and you respect another. There isn't a right way to do things, it's an individual thing. As long as there's respect then it's fine.  

Answer 6

This is a tough topic to talk about.  In my opinion, I think you need to know how someone is sexually before you marry them.  But that could be me being corrupted by society.  Even though this can't happen anymore, I do dream of being a virgin and finally doing it on the wedding night.  So that could be something to look forward to.  If you feel comfortable waiting, then I think you should do so.

Answer 7

I'm a virgin as well, but really alot more than like has to come into the picture for me. I mean I would need to feel a deep connection with that person. We'd have to at least more than a few shared beliefs and interests. And basically be able to accept each other, openly and honestly for who we are. If that is the case then I wold be willing to wait with them. Mind you, there are a few things I would wish to tryout before I get married, with my partner in my corner and would likely feel really jealous about doing after I go married. So if they could understand that as well then I'd be good.

Answer 8

Of course! i mean I am with them because who they are and not for their body. I would respect their wishes