Would you want to stay in a relationship to someone who doesn't want to commit?

Question

I'm sorry..what exactly does committing to a relationship mean anyways?

Answer 1

no sounds like a player next

hugs!

Answer 2

Uh... nooo...

Its a time-waster.  The person not wanting to commit doesn't put 100% into the relationship so its bound to disintegrate.  Its not a partnership; its a chore assumed by one individual.  One person can't be doing all the work.  Believe me, relationships are work and require input by both partners.

Answer 3

commit? Like getting engaged and married?

No.... i dont wanna get married for like 15 years.

Until i'm too old and getting chubby and can't stay on the market very long :P

Nah just kidding, but i'm not ready yet.

Answer 4

What a waste of time that would be.

Answer 5

like getting marryd n ****, and i wouldnt stay in a relationship if someone wanted to marry me yet

Answer 6

No I wouldn't. I'm not that old, but I'm not into the revolving door c**p anymore. If someone doesn't want to commit to being with me, whether it involves marriage or not, don't waste my time.

Answer 7

I would not use the word "relationship" unless there was some level of commitment there. Without commitment, it's only a fling.

Answer 8

Presently, I'm not interested in being in a committed relationship, so the first Q is irrelevant to me, at the moment.

But as to your second Q, I think that when people are committed, they are accountable to each other, as opposed to being in a casual romantic or sexual relationship, or dating, in which neither person gives account to the other, they are individuals, living their own lives and coming together only to enjoy each other's company, but not interfere in each other's lives in any way, shape or form.

I also think that in most cases, when someone loves another, he or she is more likely to commit, compromise some of their independence and be a little flexible for that person.

Personally, I would only do that with someone who firstly - I am in love with and trust, and second - am certain would be a compatible companion for myself, in many respects.

Answer 9

Of course not. We wouldn't be compatible.