Wouldnt it be great if when pregnant...???

Question

following a pregnancy scare and not being able to get to the shop for a test i thought i wish there was some sign that happened to everyone like your face went blue but then i thought thats silly. Would it not be great if your nipples went white or red when your body first noticed signs of pregnancy. like with men, when they are aroused there is a sign, when ppl are tired there eyes shut, when youve hurt something there is an unpleasant sign called pain. so i suppose a bump is a sign but if you didnt want the baby thats to late to do anythjig about it. so i wonder why god didnt give us any signs? would it be because he didnt support abortion? but personally i strongly believe common people should not be allowed to have babies, simply because living on a council estate, with no money, no prospects no future, they have a litter who then cause havoc , vandalising, stealing, happy slapping, drop out of school and history repeats its self then the have a BABY. Very rarely does anyone from this background ammount to anything, this is exactly how shanty towns are formed, so why is this allowed? should ppl who live on council estates be scared to go to the shops in fear of being attacked by the local gang? im not talking down to these people, i bet Some of them are the kindest people in the world( a handful of them) the rest are drop outs , drug users etc etc so i think it should be an offence to get pregnant unless you have been pre aproved. surely a baby has the right to succeed in life. If this was all stopped, education levels would rise, poverty would decrease as would underage pregnacy if the young girls knew theyd go to jail.

Answer 1

pregnancy is a great thing and some of the points u have made i do agree with u, how ever unfortunatly no matter how much some one can say this is never going to change, im 18 my self and i fell pregnant on the pill and it obv was not planned but no matter wht i will not even considergetting rid of it. i feel that if u fall preg then it is ment to be and maybe it can happen to the worst of people but one in a few people it can change them for the best and make them see life in a diff way. but u are very true on some of the things u have said xox

Answer 2

You have a nerve, you ARE a  'vicky pollard' type yourself - getting pregnant at 17!

Getting rid of it - how immature. And now claim to be successful and hardworking just because you run your own business. I hope images of the baby you got rid of haunts you for life!

You are ignorant and selfish

Answer 3

It would be great if there was a sign for pregnancy, only because it would be nice to know so if you drink, you can stop so it doesn't harm the little one.  Who are we to say who can and can not have children.  I bet a lot of children get into all those things you listed even if they come from wealthy families (Look at Paris Hilton, Nicole Richie who was adopted, and Lindsey Lohan).  

I think you are incredibly dense for thinking like this.  It shows that if a child lives in an abusive home that they are more likely to act out violently and education for the entire class goes down.  It is not our job to punish children who are born into bad situations.  It are those exceptions that make our world so beautiful (Perserverence is a wonderful thing.)

Answer 4

i could not agree more with you!!!

Answer 5

Oh I am sorry, but I have been hysterical for the past five minutes at your superb question- with my blue face and my white or red nipples, I'd be a delightful sight wouldn't I?  Please tell me you're joking, I will be snorting all night at this one, it's genius!

God gave women the ability to know when they are pregnant, that's how they get suspicious and take tests.

I take it you've never lived on a council estate, I have.  My brother and I would never have dreamed of stealing or vandalising etc, we have both worked our way into jobs to support our family lives now that we're grown up.  However, I can't help but agree that there are too many chavs that need sterilising and that our government is engineered to reward single parents for their promiscuous behavior and condemn the married working parent.    Do you seriously believe that a poor mother doesn't want the best for her children?  Or that rich people are better parents, I know 2 people who made their child so miserable that he is a disaster, they're loaded!  Money doesn't make good breeding, it just enables the breeders to get away with more in our consumer, money driven society.  Ask any kid who's been "punished" at posh boarding school if the rich life is better, they probably hardly know their parents, as when they get home, nanny is there to take care of them.

As I say, I can't help but agree when you hear chav mothers screaming obscenities at their kids and slipping them the "greggs pacifier" or cheese 'n' onion pasty just to shut them up.  Some people should not breed, but this is not split into rich and poor.  My mum had no money, and we were very well treat, well raised, well mannered and grew up with her desire to succeed in life.  To my mind, chavs must have money, because they can afford expensive sportswear, next, gap, posh baby stuff and tattoos.  So how would you police it?

Thank you so much for your question! I have rarely laughed so much!

Answer 6

i understand wot you are saying, but if you stopped these people having babies, you would have to stop people who have ever drinked, people who have ever been over weight, people who have ever taken drugs, people who swear, people who steal, people who had obortions at young ages. there wouldnt be any children in the world. i do agree with what you are saying about these people but in the area in which i live there are a few areas around which are like that but, they look after these kids, eveerybody has a different lifestyle and its not always possible for everybody to have the best chance in life. some people look after their children very well with little money whilst living on a councel estat and young mum are sometimes better mums then earlier ladies. i think your being a bit judgemental and i dont see the point in this question.everybody is different and the government are trying to help by making sure kids stay at school longer to stop them just getting pregnant.

Answer 7

LOL, I agree!  There was a lot of confusion when I first got pregnant, we thought I had a miscarriage, but then I ended up pregnant 2 weeks later.  Right now I am about 10 weeks along and am still confused about whether or not I had a miscarriage. Not sure whether I was pregnant all along or got pregnant immediately after.....

Answer 8

Well, I think you're from a different country than me because I have no idea what a council estate is..  But to me that makes sense except for the fact that you are saying that someone who is poor doesn't deserve the right to have children (which to me is the meaning of life) just because they were unfortunate enough to be born int a poor family.  If there were a way they could sort out these people that'd be the idealistic way to go..  

Answer 9

get over yourself. i see that getting pregnant at 17 is selfish, and as for all these chav mums at least they take responsibilty for their actions, i dont think someone so prejudice deserves to have children and i dont personally think that someone who can kill their unborn child for the reason they cant afford it should have them either, and someone so well educated as u should have had the intelligence to wear protection

after note i am 21 , married and jointly earning over 71000 per yr......NO DEGREE, i work hard and have a beautiful child. i wasnt born with a silver spoon in my mouth  like some

p.p.s just seen one of your answers, u have a degree but u walk dogs for a living hahahahaha lmao!!!!!

Answer 10

You sound like the borg from star trek, however there is a sign, its called not getting your period, and god has nothing to do with it..

Many people that have had a hard life have succeeded later in life, so go and get more experience in life, stop being judgmental, and get off your soap box, your argument is weak.

Answer 11

Pregnancy is a very special gift and there are many signs that can make one suspect they are pg.

Another clue is if you have s*x (usually without using contraception) you MAY get pregnant

I don't believe a child is safe born to a drug user for example but I do think some drug users change their lives around and can become wonderful people. Also these people are usually struggling in one way or another and see drugs as a way to block out the pain / situation.