Wow, why does she hate me so much?

Question

Yesterday I split my head open becuase my sister kept shouting to me 'go and get the dog before he runs out the house so i panicked and ran, feel over and slammed my head and i have a hugeee bump on my head and i was crying saying to my sister 'courtney i split my head open, omg i think i'm going to die, go and get mum please do something. she was writing something down, as i was crying saying please help, she didn't even look around, then i said to her you 'fat ***** get mum' cause i knew if i said 'fat *****' (what was mean) she would have listened, guess what.. she started screaming at me 'you c.u/\/t, fk you b!.tch blah blah and theres me with a broken head i couldn't even speak, i can't believe she ignored me the whole time. and then today my brother said to me playing around 'you wothless sla.g, she didn't know it was a joke and she was laughingg so much :| she seems to hate me for no reason. whenever my younger brother calls my sister names i act like his calling me names and shout at him and get mad, basically like i care if he calls her names, if he says stuff about me she just laughs. she only cares about herself. isn't this bad?

Answer 1

Oh Man! Shes awful! You sound like the better of the two! Talk to your mother Please! Dont let your sister get away with this! Thats awful!

Answer 2

Your sister sounds like she has some jealousy issues. You need to talk to your mum about it. This (if not addressed within the family) can lead to hurtful acts that can harm a person severely.

Story time: I know of a girl who was so jealous of her little sister that she took her in the closet and tried to strangle her. When the nanny found them, she lied and said she found her sister in there and she was trying to help her.... of course that was a lie, as the older sister had a history of always hurting and belittling the little one....

So, if your family can afford it, suggest to your mum sibling counselling. That may help bring out the real reason why all you kids have some "argument" issues. Be safe and good luck!

Answer 3

mabe shes jealous of you hopefully this will be one of tose bad time yall will grow out os and end up really close later in life just remember she is your sister and she cant really hate you.

Answer 4

WOW...your house hold is out of control.  WHERE IS THE MOTHER HERE that didn't teach you better manners and love in that family?  

You started it baby!  You called her horrible names...and not because you wanted to draw her attention...but you were being a drama queen.  If you were alert enough to scream names at someone...you were ok and alert enough to get a towel and go see your mother alone.

ALL of you should be ashamed and your mother needs to take control of that house.  You children are running it

To get respect..... YOU EARN IT.....

Do not ever expect to get any kind of respect if you treat people as you do.  You are a horrible little brat !   You are all horrible little egotistical children brats!  NONE of you care about each other and don't say you couldn't even speak...you were calling names.!  So you are lying to yourself.

YOU need to apologize....and begin to develop character and remember the golden rule...

DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE THEM DO UNTO YOU!

That means...don't treat anyone in any way you don't want yourself to be treated.  Others have feelings and the world does not revolve around you alone.

You obviously survived the ordeal on your own....so you achieved NOTHING but being a drama queen and starting WW 3!

As for your mother....she needs to get in control and raise your all to be more respectful or when you get out in the world...people are going to hate you and you are going to have tons of problems with responsibility, friendships, marriages and work!  YOU Have to be a person with character and be sane to get along in this world...or people are going to laugh at you and keep their distance because you are just plain NUTS!

Answer 5

Well.... my dear...

It seems as there is a lot of.. "turmoil" at your house.. I can understand your situation quite well & I'd like to help you as much as I can... "long-distance"... First of all, you should be aware of the fact, that : Every action causes a...REACTION !!! So...calling each other "names" isn't resolving any "conflict"...on the contrary...it causes MORE ...conflict, so...I advise you to : stay cool, calm & collective !!! Do not get involved in any "name-calling", cause it does NOT..."resolve" anything !!!

I know, it's real hard at times with your "siblings" & what I used to do "in times of trouble" is...-just to take my distance - I just..."ignored them"...- went to my room & did something... "constructive"...until the "air was clean" & everyone calmed down !! So..this is what I can suggest you to do as well. It works !!!

Wishing you all the best for the future ! Greetings from Germany with all my love & care... Annette***

Answer 6

it al depends on wat ages yas are... if ur young ya'l all grow out of that.... ive heard worse... hae u said this to any of ur relitive coz if u havent i tink u should coz u need to talk to some one close to ya

Answer 7

seems to me that both of you girls only respond to screaming-

if you READ YOUR QUESTION* the only time you guys did anything for one another is when you were screaming and cussin eachother..and your little brother is only repeating what he sees in the home.and pretty soon he wont be "playing around" when he says those hatefull words to you.

START by removeing the ugly words,and replace them with PLEASE and I LOVE YOU***** good luck to you all

Answer 8

Well she probably feels like she has control over you so  ignore her ,and just pretend as if shes not their.If she asks you to do something just do it with no comment ,unless shes taking advantage of you then just say a clear 'no' if she says it again walk away and don't pay any attention to her, and when your brother makes fun of her don't do anything don't get mad and don't laugh just as if nothing happened then she will start to try to get you attention and she will be nicer ,when you think she is ready you will be like sister cuz she will have realised how much she needs you.

Answer 9

Woah, that's kinda mean.

Kids'll be kids though, you'll laugh about it one day