Wrape,mysister,me ughhhh?

Question

we used to be an ordanary family....then my sister decided at 15 years old that she would sneek out of the house to go meet up with her best friend, i guess she has did this many times before. she has stolen cars before out of my drive way ( my moms , my dads) and she was out of control, well when she had snuck out that night, she ended up being gone for about 4 to 6 weeks, and when me the cops and my parents and my other sister went looking for her, she has p**s or her ect. she was a mess... well turns out she was raped but sombody she used to be friends with in the middle school down here...she was raped by 6 guys...and now she is 21 years old and im 16 and she is like tramatized and cant move on with life....she is currently going to conceling and is in a prgram to get her better....

but ever time i want to go out, now that im the age my sister was when all that happend...my parents retrict the places i go. i try and tell them " im not like her, i dont sneek out" that aint gong to happen to me....

but she says " thats what she said too"

i dont know what i can say to her to let her now i would never do that to her becuase iv seen the pain she has been through...

Answer 1

listen  to  you're  parents.  I'm  not  trying  to  tell  you  what   you  think  but,  you  shouldn't  if  you  are  be  mad  at  you're  parents  because  they  are  just  trying  to  keep  you  safe.  But  that  is  awful  what  happened  to  you're  sister.  I  feel  sorry  for  her  but,  at  the  same  time  she  should  have  known  better.  Good  luck.  

Answer 2

Your parents have experienced a lot with the things that has happened with your sister. They probably can not handle much more before going crazy, so they are just being more strict on you to protect you and preserve what sanity they have left. One day when you have children of your own you will understand why they were so protective. As parents, the safety and well being of our children is our most important goal in our lives. And when that is jeopardized, we go to all lengths to protect our babies, no matter what age they are. Be thankful your parents love you so much and care for you.  

Answer 3

Listen to your parents.They are protecting you and even if you do not sneak around, it doesn't mean you won't end up in the wrong place at the wrong time.

Your sister will not move on until she takes responsibility for her actions.She would not have gotten raped if she had not snuck out in the first place,and I hope that it has woke your parents up enough to realize they should have nailed her window shut and put an alarm on the door.