Writing love letter help

Question

A guy I started seeing wants me 2 write a love letter 2 him cause we have a difficult time expressing feelings. Its hard 4 me 2 translate what I feel in2 words, I am more of an affectionate person. Can you explain the way you feel or how you felt when you 1st met your gf/bf & give me some ideas.

Answer 1

just write that which is in your mind

write your feelings u have in your hearts and without any fear

Answer 2

Just put all your thoughts on paper as your thinking, The idea will soon come to you

Answer 3

This is something I've been thinking about lately.  I sort of have the same problem with my bf.  When I first met my bf, I thought he was so funny.  We teased each other all the time, and I liked him ever since I met him.  It's only been a year since we've met, but we know each other so well.  It surprises me sometimes.  When I think about all the times we've had together, I can't believe how close we've gotten.  Because he's more then just my bf, he's my best friend too.  No one understands me like he does, and no one makes me happier.  I think about him all the time.  Every time he calls, I feel myself getting excited and I run to the phone.  I have dreams about him almost every night.  One day, I'll feel like I'm completely in love with him, and the next, I'm upset that we ever met, and I feel like I shouldn't have gotten into any of this.  It's so confusing.  Right now, I'm trying to figure out how I really feel about him.  And I really wish I knew how he feels about me.  This is my first relationship, and it's very confusing.  Sometimes, the weirdest things will happen.  Like how much we have in common.  It surprises me!  Or like the time when he told me I wasn't funny.  I was mad at him for months.  He didn't mean to make me upset, and I was probably overreacting.  But a few days ago, he told me I was funny.  It turns out that he thinks I'm funny for different reasons then I thought.  He may not understand my verbal sense of humor, but he thinks that some of the stuff I do is funny.  I can never stay mad at him for long.  It's impossible.  We can get uncomfortable around each other sometimes...we've never held hands or anything, just hugged.  We don't even refer to each other as bf/gf.  Just best friends.  It bugs me.  Alot.  I really want to do something about it, but like I said, this is my first relationship.  I'm not good at this stuff.  I'm worried that I'll mess everything up.  He makes me nervous and happy and sad and excited all at the same time!  I think that you should just write what you feel.  What does he mean to you?  Why is he special?  It doesn't have to be the exact definition of a love letter, you can just talk about how you feel.  If he's asking you to do this, he might be worried that you don't like him that much.  That's kind of how I feel with my bf.  He might just want some reassurance, and trust me, it will probably make things better between you two.  Just talk about how your life has changed since you met him and how special he is to you.  How do you feel when your with him?  Without him?  Just write what you feel and don't stop.  And be honest.  Don't give lines or anything like that (unless you mean it).  Be honest with him, and yourself.  And at the end, ask him to write one to you.  Tell him about your favorite memories that you have of him.  Write about the qualities you like about him.  Write about something that surprises you about him (in a good way).  Try writing a chart about your feelings.  Like this:

When I See You I Feel:  (you fill out the rest)

Stuff like that.  Then you can convert the chart into a letter.  Sorry this is so long, but I hope it helps.  BTW, if you have any advice for me (because like I said, same problem here) email me.  You can click on my avatar and email me from my profile.  Good luck!!! =)

Answer 4

From the moment that I saw you I realized that there was such a thing as the right person at the right time and for me that is you. I certainly hope that you feel the same way. They say that two strangers chemistry must be matching and that is my feeling with you. Good Luck with your quest.....

Answer 5

How about we cheat a little and I tell you some of the things he wants to hear and this should make it a lot easier for you and will make him happy at the same time.  

He wants to hear how much you hate not being with him and how it affects everything you do.  You can tell him that its hard to concentrate on your daily routine because he is always on your mind.  He wants to know some specific things that you like about him inside and out.  Its easier than it seems and if you think of something while you are writing something else then jot it down on a scrap piece of paper so you don't forget it because I know in the past I have thought of some good lines and then forgot them before I ever got to it..lol.. Good luck.

Answer 6

start talking about things that he did for you that remember, and how special those memories are. once you open the floodgate, it will all start pouring out!

Answer 7

you shouldn't have to write him a letter to prove anything.

just write whatever you wnt and do urself a favor and DO NOT RE-READ THE LETTER, it becomes ungenuine when you read it back, just print and send.

Answer 8

When I first met my hubby i felt this attraction like I was being drawn to him. As we started talking, for the 1st time ever I felt nervous. I could not explain what was going on I just know that my thoughts were unclear. To my surprise, he was feeling the same way. It was kinda of humorous to see to nervous people trying to make a moment work, but we did and we have been together for over 3 years now.

If you wanna put your feelings into a love letter, just think back when you guys met and the words will come out.

Hope it helps....  

Answer 9

just write idea`s of yourself and than write stuff that he would like to hear "if you were a part of a volocano your be the lave because your hott" or something like thing "if you were an angle ill be in heaven,from a scale 1-10 ill give you 11!   When i first have my gf iwrote i bursted out of my shell as soon as i saw your eyes!And i also said that are you a twin of an angle!And if she said no i said"are you sure?!?!"Then At the last thing i said was I LOVE YOU<3  and gave or a his on the cheek!After i gave her the note!!!!