Wrong to crush on a 40 year old guy when your a 17 year old girl?

Question

He doesn't know...(and there is NO WAY I would tell him) I've known him since child hood and always really looked up to/had a LOT of respect for him.

Answer 1

No it is not wrong. You respect him, that's normal to have a liking of someone. If I were you, just treat him the way he treats you. He will get the message without you telling him the message. Saves the embarrassment. Just be sure not to over due it. Okay, glad I could help. :)

Answer 2

Nope.  There are women who likes oldies men.  Like me I'd rather to have a boyfriend 20 years older than me and it doesn't matter of his age. Age doesn't matter it the hearts that counts.

Answer 3

its just a crush, i mean we all get them.