Wtf is wrong with her?

Question

My mother goes through my underwear..o.o I came home today and I found a bra on the floor that I know was in the drawer. So I set up something to see if she really did look through my underwear. I have these shorts with the string on the waistband and I stuck it out of the drawer and when I came back, it was back in and my bras were in a different order (I like to arrange them in rainbow order haha). And I know she didn't do laundry or anything. So..what the heck? o.O

Answer 1

........ask her flat out  "Why are you searching through my undergarments?! Do I look in your pantyhose and old nightgown drawers?"

she's probably looking for drugs, condoms, fake i.d.s, etc...she needs a hobby though! lol

Answer 2

Talk to her ... Do you have brothers? maybe your brothers friends? or little sister?

Answer 3

you should rig booby trap so that it explodes when she opens the drawer

and then scream at her for setting it off cuz your were trying to catch a wild carrot-eating duck

or hide your panties in your backpack and take them to school with you and show everyone you pantie collection ... im sure the guys at you school would love it :)

Answer 4

well, this doesn't happen to me, thank god, but I think that is ridiculous. We have a right to privacy, and this just sounds like she doesn't trust you. sit hr down and ask her about it, and clear up all the things that she has to worry about. hope I helped.  

Answer 5

I'm a boy and my mom occassionally does random searches of my room for God knows what...well, I could assume, but whatever, I've got nothing to hide.

From what you've said, neither do you.  Like honestly, confront her, say, "Look, mom, I know you've been going on pantyraids, and if you're so scared that I might have something you don't want me to have, go ahead!  Keep looking!"

If you don't have anything to hide, then it makes her look like the buffoon (no insult to your mom, of course).

Answer 6

go out and buy a lock for your door with a key..make sure she sees it and before u put it on she will naturally ask what it is for..tell her (CALMLY) well apparently we have trust issues in this house and I need to enforce having my own respected privacy, since u like to go through my things instead of just asking me things or talking to me about things then u have forced me to take such a drastic measure. she will get defensive and pissed naturally.(CALMLY) Tell her to calm down relax and just tell u what is on her mind..ask her why she doesnt trust u. Ask her how she would feel if u riffled through her personal  things. she will get the point and hopefully stop snooping and just ask from then on.

Answer 7

maybe just looking to see if u go drugs or condoms.And just tell her to knock it ff.

good luck

Answer 8

she has some serious issues.