Y&R: What would be worse thinking that your father is dead Or that he is alive and to selfish and wont come ?

Question

back home? Obviously this is about Victor.

Answer 1

I'm going to be different and say the first one. Death is final and for someone who has lost many loved ones, that is the worse thing possible. There is always a chance for reconciliation if he is still alive.

Answer 2

Worse that's he is alive and way to fricken selfish!! That's Victor Newman for you though I mean he keeps blaming Nikki but he is the one who brought David Chow to Genoa City to be Jacks campaign manager. That man charmed his way into Nikki's life and she is only human so what did he expect, he wasn't doing his part towards the end when they were still married!!

I really think he needs to stop playing the Blame Game it's getting old already.

Answer 3

begging and to selfish and wont come

Answer 4

dead. if he is alive and too selfish to come home, at least he is alive. although i would be mad that he let his son that he only knew for what 5 months take over the family business.

Answer 5

I think it would be WORSE that he didn't want to come home to his loving dysfunctional family >>>> Knowing someone had died is hurting enough BUT for that special person NOT wanting to return would hurt ( JUST about as bad as that slime-bag Adam is hurting KNOWING that NO,,,,,he wasn't his daddy's favorite ) I loved it when he realized Victor didn't love him more !!!! Oh,,,the vanity of some people WHO does Adam really think he is ?????????

( why couldn't Adam be on Bold & Beautiful and have Poison Pammy after him ????? ) I HATE ADAM

EDIT ::::::::: love me longtime,,,,I'm so sorry for your hurt. Open up your email so we can email you  :-)

Answer 6

same old selfish victor blaming everyone else for something they have no control over . Nikki had no control over what David chow did and now victor wants to blame her ? wow talk about the pot calling the kettle black . that man has more gall than i have ever seen .  

Answer 7

id say the second one because that indicates that he dont care

Answer 8

Well if l'm told that he's dead, then l can live with that, but if he's alive and l know him and he knows me but still refuses to be a part of my life, then l guess he's not worthy of my time!

Answer 9

The second would be definitely worse. But stay tuned....

Answer 10

If he is dead, he has an excuse for not coming.  

Answer 11

For me it would be that he is alive and wouldn't want to be in my life. Its a real shame that this actually happens. Life is short. :~)

Answer 12

one's just as bad as the other but if i were nick and victoria i would be gloating when adam finds out that victor isn't dead which means the company and the money and the mansion isn't his to run afterall! i would rather he be alive and well then dead though even if he wasn't around.

Answer 13

in Victor's case they will forgive him since he was so deeply affected by Sabrina's death...he knew her all of a minute but was soooooooo in love with her...go figure

Answer 14

that second one is actually my dad. he doesnt do anything for me. when i was like 2 or 4, my dad said he would pick me up and spend time with me, so my mom got me all dressed up and did my hair rel pretty. this was christmas day, so i waited on the porch and he never came. we tried to call him and he would ignore my phone calls. he doesnt want to be in my life because he knows where i live, and he knows my number but doesnt want to reach me. his new wife hates me and told me to get over the past. how can i when it hurt me and hes still not around? well anyways, i think the second one is worst overall.

sorry for the long story i just had to get it out  

Answer 15

it would be worse knowing that he is alive and wont come back home