Y does somedays feel bad or ur life just terrible or god just doesnt like u?

Question

well i feel that way all the time but thats what really good friends r for?right?or is life always gonna be a mystery to us?any ways im 13

Answer 1

Life has it's ups and downs. Just the other day I was looking back in my journal and comparing it to the present. A year ago I was in one of the worst situations of my life. I was depressed (and didn't know it), borederline poor, and had no hope in life. Today, I had one of the best days of my life. Everything turned around, or I've found a way to make that situation better.

Answer 2

If you are 13, I am going to tell you that part of it is your age and why it seems to suck.  Meaning, your hormones/body is changing - nothing you can do about it but it does have a lot of affect on your state of mind.  Also, you are probably on the verge of experiencing alot of peer pressure....normal also at your age.  But you just have to be true to yourself.

The coolest part when you get older (after high school), you will be in a position to make decisions for yourself with your life as an adult and being independent.  Whether you're in college and/or work, etc. you become in control of things a lot more...and if you aren't happy, it's much easier to change them.

Life will always be a bit of a mystery but as you get older, you get smarter so it's not THAT much of a mystery as it probably appears to you know.  It's very cool actually when you grow....and also look back to your age now.  

I'd just know that what's happening to you (apprehensive / days suck) is also happening to your friends around you too right now (but people handle it differently).  Don't feel like God doesn't like you.  He has a very strange way of things "happening" for YOUR personal best interest.....even if you can't see it now.  I am 37 and felt similar at your age....and trust me, it gets a LOT better.  But hang in there....and if you have a negative mindset, you will always feel terrible.  Be optimistic and things won't look that bad.  It's easier said than done.  But what's going on with you right now is VERY normal part of life. :)