Y is my mum such a homophobe!!!?

Question

All she does is care what people are going to think of her and us she doesn't no I'm g*y yet... but she will soon and I'm scared wat shes going to do... all she cares about is wat our family are going to look like and not others feelings well ive had enough...i dont no what to do anymore

Answer 1

You are in big trouble, lady. You screwed. When your mom will know that you ain't straight that she think, she may wipe your ***.

To mother is more difficult accept their child going to the path of g*y life, because being you g*y, you won't like having any kids cuz to have kids you will have to have a man. Also it's the worst what mother can know about her child.

Answer 2

Maybe she's a closet g*y herself.

Answer 3

Mate,tell her the best way possible and well......whatever will bw ,will be..its about YOU now. Best of luck love xx

Answer 4

I'm with you on that, she's just gonna have to deal with it.  My mom is the same way, she worries what other people will think..s***w other people, you're her daughter so she should care what YOU think!

Answer 5

That's her problem and not yours.

You shouldn't say anything cause she might kick you out if she finds out that you're g*y. Then you'd be in real trouble. Unless you have a place to go.

Unfortunately your mother isn't that unusual. There are many homophobic people out there.  

Answer 6

I myself am a 15 year old g*y girl, and long story short I was pretty much forced to tell my mom I was g*y by another parent who found out I was dating her daughter. I was horrified because I was younger at the time (13) and had no idea as to whether or not my own mother would accept me for who I am. I told her, and she said she was " cool "  with it... but when she found out about my girlfriend, all h**l broke loose and she soon started judging me and my g*y friends and it was horrible. I'm not sure how old you are, but I recommend telling her when you're able to move out and support yourself in case she doesn't.