Yard problem......?

Question

Right this isnt really a question i ask on here but im stuck. I love the yard im on and the people there and my horse. ( i cant move and i wont) ITS PERFECT. Apart from i feel really really REALLY left out at the minute. It was fine when i first came on and everything was fine. I am naturally shy but i got a lot of comments with my riding ability so soon perked up and started to chat with the other girls on the yard. Meanwhilst my friend was looking for a loan/lease horse like me, i found her "the perfect one for her", she was greatfull to me for ages and hung round with me at yard a lot. I was happy. Then she really took to another girl on the yard, im fine with that and just hung round with everyone again. But it got worse, she made more friends. And she got better friends with them than me. And sometimes when we were stuck for time she'd make up excuses not to ride with me, time was too tight etc, she likes riding later, she wanted to ride at a specific time, she wanted to ride

Answer 1

wow looks like you and i have the same problem except for the fact that i am a teenager and every one at my stable is 40+ years old. we all get along but they never invite me to go on hacks with them. lately i have just looked on the bright side i meen they are nice to me so i am nice back. my advice to you is look on the bright side, dont take things for granted and plan a picnic! if you plan an activity like a picnic you can take the horses out and invite anyone who wants to go. put a notice about it in your tackroom where every one will see it and have a sign up sheet. that way no one will feel left out and you might meet some one new!

hope every thing works out