Year ten! OMG PLEASE HELP ME :( x?

Question

Hi!

I'm going into year ten in September and i'm so so scared!

I got my timetable on Friday.... I was on A side up till year nine, then now i'm on B side... and all my friends are on B side which I thought oh yes good... but now I need to get changed back to A side because of some lesson I took!!

I had at least one friend in each set of mine...

Now i'm on A side.... all of my friends have gone!!!!

I dunno what to do! They have all moved to the B side!

I hate changes, and I'm really upset.... I will be mixing with people that hate me. A lot of people are with me from the other side of the year that I hardly know anymore (from primary school) I'm scared i'm gonna have NO friends and stuff, & i'm gonna have to work on my own and people that don't like me will laugh.

Some girls call me names & stuff, & I just don't want to be with them.... I don't have any friends on my side anymoreee!!

I feel so upset about it!

Help!

Answer 1

Year ten? A side? B side? WHAT????????????

Answer 2

I'm going into yr 10 too in Sep., and I'm a bit worried too, but you know what? For my lessons, none of my close mates are in my classes, only some distant friends. But don't worry, you dont have to be in the same lessons to be friends, your friendship is strong enough. Plus, it will be easier for you to concentrate on your coursework..=]

Dont worry!

Answer 3

Calm down, you'll be fine. Just try your best to act friendly towards everyone. You never know, this might be a good thing as it gives you the opportunity to meet new people and make some new friends. Does this mean that you have a different lunch time to your friends? Because if you all have the same lunch time you can still talk to them then and if you don't you'll find some new people to hang around with. There's always someone who surprises you and will be really nice. Just be brave!

Answer 4

What country are you from??

Answer 5

Well you can't help where you're placed. Just try to make new friends... try to find someone nice in the sea of b*****s... I'm sure there'll be one.

Answer 6

Let me tell you, i was in the same situation as you..

Year ten is going to be a challenging year because what you do there shapes up your future and your GCSEs. All i would say is don't worry! Hun, as far as i am concerned, in year ten when you want to have THE BEST exam results possible you wouldn't have time to hang out with friends.. I faced the same problems as you as my friends moved to other classes.. I just did what i had to do, put my head down and hang around with those who were alone and who liked hanging out with me.

I wouldn't worry about this, there are going to be people who you would like to spend time with and vice versa.. The best way to deal with name calling is to actually stay away from the source. You don't have to be around people who make you feel bad. Sitting in front of the class room doing your work can really prevent such situation from occurring.. And who knows? Those girls might want to pay attention to work rather then bullying.

Good luck.

Answer 7

wat? a side b side umm.... were do u live?

Answer 8

if you know who some of the people in your new group are try to speak to them a bit over the holidays i used to worry like you but I'm sure you will be absolutely fine. don't worry worrying wont get you anywhere an just think you have about 6weeks until you have to go back to school you have loads of time to make a few friend that are going to be in your new classes, get your current friends to help with that to.There are bound to be others feeling like you are now.you'll be fine xx

Answer 9

Relax just take deep breathes. It's not the end off the world.

Plus you can also vist your friends during Lunch.

Answer 10

Study really hard and get back to the B side. Just don't worry about those people. Cause the ob-viously has some insecurities with themselves to be picking on you. (its true)

Be nice a talk to the people that don't hate you. They can't ALL hate you right? Show the ppl who do hate you and show them that you're a nice, wonderful person.

Answer 11

I had this too!

You will make friends gradually if you are on this side for every lesson.

You might want to try mixing with them outside of school at a club or something first in this holiday or find someone who you know is on this side who you could be friends with and talk to them on msn/bebo/myspace/facebook and get to know them more,

good luck and remember that you are at school to get good grades as well as make friends too!

Answer 12

Are you from england? I am and Iv never heard of this A side B side stuff?? Is that only at State skools?

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Answer 13

Relax, you'll be okay.

When I moved up into year 10 I was separated from every single one of my friends and was put into the groups with the ones that hated me.

If you try stay out of their way and ignore their comments they're bound to leave you alone as they did me, most of the ones that hated me have actually become friends with me.

If your still really scared, talk to your teachers and see what they have to say, worst comes to worst you might have to change a subject that'll allow you to transfer back to B-side.

I stuck at my lessons, and it turned out okay for me.

Year 10's not scary, honestly. I've been through it and I can honestly say it was fun. I'm sure you'll make friends, I did throughout that year! Make the effort to talk to people and they'll respond. How can you not make friends when your groups trying to hide a failed experiment from your stroppy science teacher!? =p

Good luck!

x x x

Answer 14

I'm going into year 10, but we don't get our timetable until the day we go back!

but don't worry, just be nice to everyone, they will be nice back, and just ignore the names people call you, they are being immature. you will make new friends, of course you will, you have something in common with all the people in your classes, you took that subject

it doesn't matter about the people that don't like you, that's their problem if they don't like you not yours, they are probably jealous of you.

hope i helped

=)

Answer 15

oh sweetie I can see how you would be very anxious but trust me when I say life is all about change...nothing ever stays the same .Everything passes good and bad. Always remeber that and try to look at it as a new adventure...be open to it and you will make new friends as well as staying in touch with the others.Hope it all goes well x

Answer 16

I know what you mean, I am also going into Year 10 and I hate my college. Its full of rude and arrogant people. and I hate the place, in mine they've mixed the Year 10's and 11's together in forms :/

All I can suggest is that you try and move back to the B side or just work hard and don't worry about the other people. I'm sure in time you'll make new friends and get to know people much better. Its important to make sure that before you go up to College that you have a strong friendship group so you can look after each other when you go up.

And those girls seriously only talk and work with them when you have to and even if what they say hurts, pretend to ignore it and that it doesn't affect you.

Good luck for September honey!

X

Answer 17

thats just the way the cookie crumbles

sorry kid

Answer 18

i felt kinda the same when i went into year 10 (im going in to year 11 now). there will be other people in your situation and you can make friends with them. dont worry everything will be ok.

Answer 19

I am just finishing my first year of sixth form and when I started year 12 all my friends left school...I mean everyone of them. I was SO lonely so I completely understand how you are feeling.

I would agree with some of the other answers like look for new friends, which is what I had to do, and just go with the flow and see what happens. The first couple of weeks will be hard but you can see your old friends at break times and out of school.

You'll be fine....x*x