Yesterday i asked if people online would believe a guy if he had said he had been raped.i then had to delete ?

Question

those questions because noone would.so what chance would the police believe a g*y guy?they would just say he was making it up and creating drama as thats what we do.my guy i thought he was just a control freak but he controlled our s*x life and my body and i get mad and pissy at others now as i dont know how to cope.if noone believes me i dont know what i should do.i am as good as dead now.

goodbye now.

Answer 1

it does not matter what s*x your are, if that has happened to you then you go to the police and if they dismiss you, then you ask to take it higher.

if you said no then it does not matter if its man and man ,woman and woman or man and woman. No human has the right to treat another like that. go and seek legal advice to.

good luck to you...........

write it all down.........every thing all the pain etc and then burn it and find peace inside your self. As I belive we all get to see our lives and how it has affected us and others. so the saying what goes around comes around does happen. But you can either carry on with life or carry this load with you. . good luck

Answer 2

I answered your question yesterday and said I would believe you because it happened to a friend of mine when he was 17. Below is a link to a website. Please, please talk to someone about this. You could also try the Samaritans -  08457 90 90 90

http://www.male-rape.org.uk/

Answer 3

Of course people would believe you! Why wouldnt they? Its a big step to even contact people and ask! I had a controlling partner years ago and I learnt so much from the experience. People will treat you the way you allow them to treat you! Dont put up with it anymore, he controlled you because you were weak and you let him! Dont let him anymore!!Contact rape crisis or surely there is an organiation online for g*y men! GOOD LUCK  

Answer 4

Male rape is not uncommon.

Visit aest.org.uk    or   contact Male Rape Support association if you are in Lancashire.

There may well be similar groups local to you.

The help is there.   Go for it.

Answer 5

yes the police should believe you there is a lot of guys that get raped. the thing is though that unless he physically forced u into s*x. theres nothing they can realy do. in my opoin not matter who u are if someones doing stuff like that to u get rid of they and find someone else.

Answer 6

Although he's not g*y I know a guy who was raped when he was younger. It may not be common but I do know guys can get raped too. It doesn't mean you are weak, just that you were in a situation you couldn't control.

Answer 7

Calm down and take a deep breathe, if you feel you have a case then go to the police. You need proof though, was he violent? Do you have scars? Even then the case is flimsy. I think in all fairness your best bet would be to go and see a therapist who would be able to help you.

Answer 8

Hun, I think maybe you need to discuss your feelings with a close friend/family member. I really don't think suicide is ever the answer. Have you got faith in a religion or anything? God will always listen, even if you're not quite sure if you're a believer or not. Just because you're g*y, you should not be discriminated against by the police or by anyone, for that matter. I really do think you need to talk to someone. Open your heart. Good luck

Answer 9

ok

Answer 10

10 years ago male rape was unheard of and not taken seriously.  Today, rape is rape.  The police will take it VERY seriously.  It is an up hill struggle to get a conviction for rape, but for some it is just important that others recognise what has happened and to have access to the necessary help.

Best wishes go to you...