Yesterday my children were pretty hypher. They were running around and just being loud.?

Question

My husband usually over looks it but just out of the blue he starts yelling. I didnt get upset I just looked at him. I was busy doing the laundry. And then he yells at me what is the matter with you didnt you get enough this morning. I feel like witholding affection from him. and i also feel that is along the lines of verbal abuse. The reason i say that is shouldnt he feel like he is lucky for me to be with him? why would he even bring that up. he has said he was sorry but im mad.

Answer 1

G'day mate you poor girl you should of stuck his head in the washing machine turned it on and then tell him to cool off and then say no s*x for a year or till you submit to me.cheers mate

Answer 2

Sounds like someone was having a bad day, but thats no excuse for him to snap at you like that. withholding s*x isn't the answer. If your kids were being loud and rambunctious, you say you live in the country, why not have them run around outside (you didn't mention age, so they may be too young). If he hasn't shown any previous signs of verbal abuse, I suggest you sit down and talk to him and let him know it hurt your feelings that he would treat you that way. Maybe something is  bothering him at work or <shrug> who knows. You say that he did apologize, but he needs to know how to control what he says because if he doesn't "sorry" is going to be just another word that means nothing to you. The one thing you SHOULD NOT do is argue in front of the children. No matter how young they are, they will remember.Hope this helps you.

Answer 3

if he was angry at the time, he probably misinterpreted your body language, and felt they you were condemning him for shouting.

that isn't verbal abuse, its just a little spat

it happens in married life and if its only just happened to you, your marriage is going pretty well.

you shouldn't with hold your affections from him just because of one little argument.

just work it out by talking

Answer 4

Girl, cut him off, who the h**l does he think he is because he just happened to hear noise at that moment.  Cut him off and the next time he thinks about opening his mouth, he will think with the little brain.   God Bless.

Answer 5

With holding s*x is using s*x as a weapon and punishment. Why in the world would you want to do that. Just because he had a bad day you are willing to try to control the situation with s*x? If you think that is verbal abuse you haven't lived in an abusive relationship! Stop trying to have everything perfect. And, if your kids where running around and being loud they should have been told to quiet down. I think a lot of people let they kids be loud and it's not teaching them to control themselves a little. I'll bet the neighbors love all that noise.