You're married but can't get a ex fling out of your mind?

Question

Ok before I get started I have never dated but one guy and that is the guy that I am married to. We have been together for over a decade not married dating. We just recently got married. And well before we got together I was fooling around with a guy that I worked with. And well I couldn't handle it anymore and so I broke up with my boyfriend (soon to be husband). Because I couldn't handle being with him and fooling around with my co-worker. Then I couldn't handle working with him either because I was having some feelings for him. So I quit my job. And slowly went back to my ex-boyfriend (husband now). And we got married and having a great life and I am so Happy. But I keep having these sexual dreams of my ex-fling (and we never had sexual intercourse) and I can't get him out of my mind. I think about him at least once a day. Why do I have these dreams and why all if a sudden am I thinking about him?

Answer 1

                                                                                                                  Hon believe me please it is the devil tempting you ! Jesus will soon return and the devil wants as many souls as he can. Remember your wedding vows you took. Heart, mind and body for all of eternity !   Stay true to the vows you took and you will be with your husband in heaven !

Answer 2

Maybe your lacking sexual attraction in your current relationship or your probably wondering what could have happened if you never broke it off!!! You are married now and you made your decision I wouldnt try to rekindle old love cause most likely it would lead to an affair then you really wouldnt be able to handle it, and is it worth losing your husband for!!! If you are ready to lie to him everyday why your late from work or where you went for lunch and who did you go out with last night and erasing texts and calls and dialed numbers go for it give the old guya call if not then let it go and find the joy in your husband again like when you were dating!!!

Answer 3

Maybe your s*x life has slowed down a little, and your using the thoughts to touch yourself to.  Just do not going out and look for the guy, and once you get yourself hot enough jump your husband.

Answer 4

it's your mind and you have control over it.  Forget about him, focus on your husband

Answer 5

I know what you mean. I feel the same about my ex.

Answer 6

idk but i would think twice about s******g up your marriage again  

Answer 7

cos he was your forbidden fruit. EVERYONE at one point , wanted someone they know they can't have. its the temptation.

Answer 8

sometimes ur thoughts can get the better of , its normal, really dont think much about it, try not to have any reaction when u have these dreams , soon this thought will go away.