Young Mum?

Question

Im 16 (female) and have wanted to be a kindergarden since the age of 8, I just love kids so much, that im ready to have a child. i know im young, but i think i was born to be a mum early, i dont know i just have that...i dont no what u call it. Im not exactly saying im gonan have a baby now, i mean pshh i need a loving boyfriend first and make sure you know ill be able to look after the baby 100%

but argg i dont know i just want a little precious baby thats mine and i can love and care for so badlyy i want one!!!!

Answer 1

well , if your 16 i think you should wait a while , and im not like preaching like im your dad or somthin , im 14 ok so take it from me , i do believe that your intentions are good and so are you reasons but give it some time , fined a good man , fall in love , get married , and then have children , as many as you whant . because the sucses rate of young mothers in the country is vary small . so for your safety just wiat  .

Answer 2

how was your childhood? sometimes you find that young girls desparate for a baby are trying to make up for the love and attention they lacked in their own childhood. they want someone who will always love them, unconditionally.

are you financially stable?

are you both working?

do you have savings?

do you live in your own home, whether it be rented or owned?

do you BOTH want a baby?

im not saying you would be a bad mother, im sure by the sound of you, you have a lot of love to give. but all of the things i listed above are important too. however, some babies are unplanned, and the familys manage just fine.

nichola x*x