Young..what if i am pregnant!??DESPERATE HELP?

Question

hey, my boyfriend i have have s*x for the first time! (it has been within 30 hours)We are stupid and didn't use a condom or birth control pills or anything!

We were a bit tipsy and one thing just lead to another....but he didn't cu* inside me and he said he masterbated that morning and washed his p***s and urinated. Also his p***s didn't go in fully but my cherry did pop (could have been from him fingering me though?)

I don't know what to do now cause there is no way i would ever tell my parents i have had s*x because they are WAY TO PROTECTIVE!

my boyfriend and all my friends are really really helpful and want to help me in any way.

when should i get a home pregs test?

should i take the 'morning after pill' asap?

what should i do!!!!!

kate

p.s. my period is still no where near regular!!! i have no idea when it comes

Answer 1

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Answer 2

ha. sucks for you!.

thanks ferr the points anyway!.  =]]

Answer 3

you should not have had s*x in the first place!!! your period not being regular means ur soo young!! i suggest you go to a doctor, take a home pregnancy test or one at the doctors, ask you parents for the pill, TELL YOUR PARENTS!!, and watch some episodes of the secret life of the american teenager!

Answer 4

well give it about a week then take the home pregnancy test. if it is positive tell your mom that you want to see the gynecologist if she asks why tell her the truth and tell her that even though you are young you want to look into having the kid unless you don't then find a way for your boyfriends parents and your parents to work equally and add money to get the abortion. my parents are over protective too and i went out one time and i did pcp and i told my mom i wanted to go to the gynecologist because i didn't feel like my period was on time and i knew i had s*x that night so i went and found out that i was pregnant my parents and the guys parents (he wasn't my boyfriend) saved up the money within 2 months and got the abortion right on time. just be honest they will understand.    

Answer 5

You should go and get the morning after pill and take it asap,

You can take the morning after pill within 72 hours of the intercourse.

Answer 6

Morning after pill now

test in 2 weeks

Answer 7

Aww do you have any idea of when your last period was? If so, you should count from that day, 25- 28 days and your next period should come then. If your period still does not come on, don't panic your body is just going through some changes. But if you don't come on after that week, you should take the home pregnancy test. But if this is all too stressful  for you than maybe you should take the morning after pill. Hopefully you're old enough to go get one. Good Luck and next tine be prepared because ST D's really do exist. And that's not something you can get rid of without medical assistence.  

Answer 8

woah ... well ... my friend had that happen to her ... she kinda had to drop the kid, tho she srsly regrets it now. all iv heard is that u gotta wait for the period. if its late then thats srsly bad. yeah yeah take the hoem pregs test thats good, then go to your doctor and ask more. and if u cant go to YOUR doctor cuz ur scared, then go to a propper womens doctor .. or any doctor. or ask your school nurse. and if they say u gotta wait for a while then drop it ... then thats u and ur bfs decision. and dw bout ur parents; if they undertsand you and love you, dude, ther gonna help. but on the brighter side if your not pregnant ... use a condom nxt time. learn from your mistake.  

Answer 9

If Your in this extreme condition and on Yahoo Answers looking for an answer, that is amazing to me. I would go to someone Human first so I'm thinking your just making this up.

Answer 10

What a tricky situation. If there are any public health services in your area go see them and have a test for VD,STD, and get a morning after pill. You dont need much sperm to get a girl pregnant and a man can make up enough sperm to to get a girl preganant even if he masturbated earlier that day.

Answer 11

I don't know your opinion on it, but I think the best thing you can do is give yourself peace of mind by taking Plan B. It's a pill you can take within 72 hours of possible conception that kind of blocks the egg and sperm from forming a zygote. It's now available without prescription and sold in most pharmacies. I think you might have to be 18+ to get it without parental consent...you'd have to check the pharmacy to be sure.

He can say he didn't finish inside you, but if I were you, I'd want to definitely be sure I'd taken care of the situation.

Answer 12

morning after pill only works for 48 hours, so better hop on that. You could just be over reacting but don't EVER  have unprotected s*x again. It is just too risky! Not only pregnancy, but std's and what not. Just be responsible next time! Things happen sometimes but just for future times always have a condom, even if you are on the pill.

Answer 13

How old are you and what makes you think you can get the morning after pill ?  It's not an OVER the counter pill ya know.

"Stupid is as Stupid does"

Answer 14

yes go take the morning after pill now

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NOW... you hear... GO

and do be stupid and do it again without protection.  idiot

Answer 15

Take the morning after pill ASAP. It will be a good idea to tell your parents that you are sexually active so they can get you on birth control.  

Answer 16

deffinatly take the morning after pill

just to be sure

and then wait a few days and take a prego test.

Answer 17

u should take a preguant test and tell ur parents  should be honest with them

Answer 18

just take a morning after pill..

& u should be fine

u just hve take it with in 3 or 4 days but the sooner the better

u can buy one at ne drugstore but they cost kinda alot so if u go 2 like a planned parenthood place or something its free..

& u can get on birthcontrol take a pregnancy test & they can make sure u ddnt get ne stds or nething all u hve 2 is like pee n a cup  so its not that bad lol they wont tell ur parents or ne thing & its all free i just went through prett much the same thing...u can email if u wana [[e-mail]]

Answer 19

Hmm, I thought you knew all the answers to life, and thought that you were so adult and able to live on your own.  

SURPRISE. Now you need others to help you and give you answers. Wrong. that won't help you.

Your going to have to tell your parents. And stay away from the "boyfriend". I would have the little fiend arrested.  Never substitute parental love for boyfriend love. Time for heart to heart with parents.

Answer 20

Take a home pregnancy test. But a couple of different kinds just in case.

Good Luck

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Answer 21

Morning after pill! Quick! It has 89% of accuracy within 72 hours of s*x.

Answer 22

Sounds like you two are in one heck of a predicament. It is very easy, too easy to get pregnant with no protection as it only takes a tiny bit of the males sperm to impregnate a female. I'd wait a few weeks to see if you do start your period. If nothing comes in a few weeks it would be a real good idea to get a pregnancy test going. I hope the next time you two do the wild thing that you use some form of protection.

Answer 23

yes i would see the doctor or chemist about the "Morning after pill" asap as it will not hurt to at lest get that one.

get a test and see if your pregnant or not if it is too late to take the pill.

get a box of condoms too so next time at lest you have some on hand and do not have to go though this again.

as to where to get the pregnancy test from try your local shopping center or pharmacies i would wait for a few weeks before you have the test done but as it can take a while before it can be anywhere near right to tell.

Good luck  

Answer 24

dont abort your baby, thats all i ask. and go to your parents, after they yell at you they will help

Answer 25

Yes you should take the morning after pill and you can get a home pregnancy test at any drug store. Good luck!!

Answer 26

The best way is to just tell your parents.

Just imagine if you do not tell them right now, then if they figure out that you have a baby, they will be even more on your case. The results of your sexual intercourse will show. The baby will grow and eventually your parents will know.

Answer 27

You may want to try the morning after pill, but it usually fails. Do not take a pregnancy test right away, as it will fail. You must wait until a couple of days before your period. That really wasn't smart, even if you were tipsy. Be a good drunk, control yourself while under the influence.  

Answer 28

dude....that sux. get a test

Answer 29

oh....ur screwed  

Answer 30

This is what you get for having unprotected s*x.

:l

And im guessing if your period is not regular yet, your still very young, to young for s*x.

Answer 31

First of all don't listen to that BoobyJ guy, obviously he is a man, and you never let a man tell you what to do with your body! If it comes down to it and you are pregnant, and you don't want it, there is such a thing as a viable option as an abortion.