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I am a step mother and get on well with my adult step children. My husband and I are about to go on an extended holiday. Whilst we are away my step-daughter has arranged for her mother in law (who lives a couple of hours away) to stay in our house for about three days. My step-daughter volunteered the house before asking us so made it a fait a compli before we could make any input.When we leave the house it is shut down and secured and I feel uncomfortable about leaving this responsibility to someone else when they leave my house. Basically I also feel that if one has guests it is normal for the house owner to be there. My step daughter has a three bedroom house with two children so I see the logic of not disturbing the children from their rooms or putting the mother in law on the sofa bed overnight. I am torn between trying to be rational and being resentful that our house is being used as an overflow bed and breakfast.As this community is full of age ranges and nationalities I would be pleased to know how you would feel about such a situation.
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