Your partner is illegal in the U.S. How far would you go to make it work?

Question

U and ur partner are in love. You get along, have many things in commen, & have been there for each other through tough times. U don't doubt what u feel for each other but u do question one thing: What would ur future be like with this man?

Ur partner is illegal in the U.S. His job is inconsistent bcuz sumtimes there is no work that day; he's got no college degree: he can't get a license so he has no transportation; he doesn't speak english which is not a big deal cuz u do but still it's necessary. It's not his fault & he wishes to have da same opportunities :-(

U on the other hand r prepared: good & stable job, going to college, nice car, speak english & spanish, & ur legal.

He is a good man. Hard working, treats u right, helps u economically...he knows how to take care of u. But how badly can his situation get in the way? Can it? U can always help him. Who thinks such relationships r a waste? Who thinks it can work?

Please give thourough and deep opinions.

Answer 1

Buy him a computer book and ask him to learn some computer skills. Then he can get a decent job as a freelance and better his english. Then...move the effen away from the states.

Answer 2

I would treat her like any other criminal. I would call the police. I am not racist as I would do the same for any criminal: child molester, murder, drug dealer, etc.

Answer 3

It sounds like you are ready to take your relationship with this person to another level, like marriage.  I would consult with a reputable immigration lawyer on what the possibilities are.  Based upon my experience, as section 244i of the Immigration Act was repealed, should you marry, your husband would have to return to his home country to get an immigrant visa.  Once again, consult with an immigration attorney or a low cost immigration advocacy center like Catholic Charities.  Good luck.

Answer 4

at the risk of sounding like a wuss, If two people love each other enough, then it is worth the hassle. My fiance is an american and i am brittish we can spend 3 months together before i have to leave and come back, neither of us are rich but we somehow find a way to be together. Whatever work you partner does, it is going to have to be enough. He helps you financially and he pulls his weight around the house. you have to work out that despite his illegal status you still have a better chance where you are because you are situated and stable if you moved you would both be in the same situation. Good luck with whatever you decide because everybody deserves to be with their love , despit what the politicians say

Answer 5

I would never date an illegal.  People who break laws are a big turnoff...especially federal laws.  No matter how you justify it, you are dating a criminal.  There's absolutely no way I could get inside your head --- ever.  It's inconceivable to me.

Answer 6

Stay strong and do not let the negative feedbacks affect you

Answer 7

I wouldn't go far at all because I would never have an illegal partner. I kind of have a rule about not dating criminals.

Answer 8

since when those ******* who their grandparents fled Europe start judging illegals ,at least illegals didn't cross the ocean and decimate all the Indian ,long live illegal immigrant and **** the so called the fake American .

Answer 9

I would drive them to the border.