Your thoughts what do you think?

Question

He's been in my dreams nearly every night for the past 4 years, i cant stop thinking about him, my opinions of him would never change no matter what he did, i am attracted to him, actually, i've always been attracted to him. When i see him i feel excited, my heart skips a beat and my stresses seem to lighten.

Never dated him or anything, it does feel like love, i have had boyfriends but havent really felt the same way about them as i do him.

(he's my brothers friend) and since my brother is going away to work abroad i wont see this guy until xmas or longer which does make me feel like crying.

What do you think? As i havent felt like this before and it is rather hard to explain.

Btw im not a teenager with a silly crush.

And please no stupid or insulting answers.

Thanks

Answer 1

Sorry to say it, but it is a crush.  You don't mention his feelings towards you.  Does he talk to you? Spend any time with you? I felt the same way about a guy in high school, all the way through.  Finally met him at a party, spent some time talking to him, went out once, then realized he was a jerk!  So, it's hard to say what your true feelings are until you've spent some one-on-one with him. And it's hard to say until he shows some interest. Good luck!

Answer 2

awwww thats sweet how you think of him like that! i have a love like that...well i did... =[