am i a virgin or not ???

Answer 1

Whether your a virgin or not depends on your definition of virginity (and s*x).
Some people consider oral s*x to be a loss of virginity. Others don't.
Is your hymen broken? Probably. These days girls break their hymens usually way before they have s*x. Horseback riding, active games, all these things can break a hymen long before the girl becomes sexually active.