..and I thought girls are not shallow ?

Question

She is a few years younger than me..

Every time ....I have found her staring..and its not like its her natural habit.. she goes on and makes it pretty obvious that she likes me..she

is fidgety..nervous around me.. stares hard and long.. and fidgety as in not uncomfortably.. but fidgety as .. in my dream boy is here...now what do I do..

But whenever I try and t..alk with her... she avoids me..runs away.. is nervous..no sign of anything.

By the way she is 21..

why is she doing this ? rather behaving this way ?

Should I go for her?

Answer 1

That has absolutely nothing to do with being shallow and she's too old to be acting like a little girl.

Answer 2

Perhaps she....is intimidated...by all the...dots....you use...when trying to say...something..

Answer 3

u've asked this question already, she prob likes but is just very nervous .....ask her out for the weekend

Answer 4

ask her out if u like her...if she dumps u, work on ur assumptions

Answer 5

Yes if you like her.. She might be acting that way cause she might not have much experience with guys and it sounds like she's extremly shy. Just be nice to her, do n't make her feel uncomfortable just be chatty and try make her laugh to ease the tention. She'll come out of her shell sooner or later =). Tell her she doesn't need to be  nervous around you you  don't want to make her uncomfortable!

Answer 6

I agree, this has nothing to do with girls being shallow.  But if you think girls are not shallow, then sadly you were misinformed.

It seems to me that she likes you but may have some issues with expressing it.  Might you try another approach like "I brought you coffee" or "my name is ____"  maybe she wouldn't run away?  

Does she kind of just slip away or dramatically run for it?  If she takes off running, she may have more issues than you want to deal with, or she may just be a little shy.

If you like her, go for it!  she might appreciate you taking the initiative since she is unable to do so.

Answer 7

She is alittle old to be acting like a little girl. but then again she might of never grown out of it because she never had the chance too. So just confront her but be gentle she is shy.  

Answer 8

that has nothing to do with being shallow. Maybe immaturity. She is acting lk a little girl, maybe shes playing hard to get...come on you know girls do that well. If you are intrested in her that much, make a effort to get a number, text her asking if she wants to do something on the weekend. BUt if she keeps running away like a toddler, then just forget it.

Answer 9

it has nothing to do with being shallow. you need to learn the definition of a word before you use them.

she is shy. leave her alone.