......... erection problem?

Question

ok last night i was at a party with my mates, was very drunk at this girl walks over to me and starts making out with me, to cut a long story short i ended up in a bathroom with her naked a ready to have s*x, now this was my first time going all the way so i was pretty nervous, all my mates where being drunken idiots and banging on the door, and when we where making out and during foreplay i could get a erection but when it came time putting the condom on i got really nervous and i lost it and everything she tried it would get bk up again.

ive read a couple of other questions like mine and im thinking it sounds like the same problem which is nerves being the first time but i cant help thinking what if it just keeps on happening again and again

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Answer 1

This happens to lots of people the first time the have s*x, don't worry it will soon be as hard as a rock!

Answer 2

just relax you were in a situation where blo-dy james bond would be hard pushed to keep it up it was your first time you were in a bathroom [outside your comfort zone] you'd had a fair amount to drink and your mates were banging on the door ,next time try to do it in a situation where you can relax and not feel as though your under immense pressure from the surroundings you are in and it will be one of the best experiences of your life ---good luck

Answer 3

alcohol reduces your ability to maintain an erection. Added to that the pressure of your mates being so close and having to perform was probably the reason.

almost all blokes do this at ome time, theres nothing wrong with you.

oh andtry not to think about it too much, because worrying about not being able to get it up can actually stop you gettin it up.

Answer 4

i think your p***s is broken. Haha im joking, you were just really nervous which can make it go down..  

Answer 5

well if your p***s is not getting hard, then it must of been the girl wasn't hot enough . or your p***s is not working.

i guess chicks just don't make you horny.

Answer 6

Either:-

- You weren't arroused enough

- The alcahol influence affected your performance

- Nervous for your first time

Just try again, but this time try not to get drunk.  

Answer 7

ED occurs due to blockage of blood supply to panis and the things that can block the flow of blood may include smoking, a high fat diet, anxiety, tiredness and the wrong mood/mind. ED could also be due to physical reasons such as diabetes, kidney disease, chronic alcoholism, multiple sclerosis, arteriosclerosis, vascular disease, and neurological disease, injury, or side effects of drugs or any disorder that causes injury to the nerves or impairs blood flow in the p***s. Psychological factors such as stress, anxiety, guilt, depression, low self-esteem, and fear of sexual failure cause are also the major factors of ED cases. There are various website which provide different types of solution like digital product for training, gel, cream, oil and other herbal products. You may decide which type of product you will like according to time frame, cost etc. Link of one of the website is given below in source.

Answer 8

Alcohol doesn't help one bit. It reduces your ability and time.

It was your first time so you're bound to have been overcome by it all. Then you were nervous, so obviously that's not gonna help at all. THEN your mates were banging on the door. That would put you off ALOT.

It's no wonder you couldn't perform. Next time, don't be drunk, don't be nervous, know the girl, and do it in a private place.