My husband and I are just thinking about having a fourth child. I love kids esp. mine. I've always wanted a lot of children and after 3 we are considering a 4th. I want to have a strong connection to each of my children. After the 3rd I found it difficult to pay special attention to my first 2. It is much better now that she has turned 1, I only felt this way while she was a newborn. Now I think I may want another, but I don't ever want any of my kids to feel left out. For those of you that have 3 or more siblings, were you ever jealous? Did you ever not have enough attention? Were you ever resentful of your siblings? I'm most concerned for my oldest. He is 9. I know it is probably not reasonable, but I just don't want him to think that he wasn't enough. I love the relationship that my kids have with each other as well. Thanks for your help!
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