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Question

There was a guy that I posted a couple questions about because I couldn't figure out if he was straight or g*y/bi.

I got tired of guessing and basically moved on. We're still friends and I still see him because we participate in an activity together but I'm not putting any effort into pursuing him.

Well I think he picked up on this because he's been talking to me a lot more, and it's not about girls anymore! He also does stuff like lightly bumping into me as he passes by or shoving me playfully. So I'm thinking "Score!"

So then he asks me to dinner and cancels AND asks me to breakfast and cancels.

Do you think he's just playing with my head???

Answer 1

If he keeps doing it, forget him.  

Answer 2

If he is still your friend I don't think he is playing with your head; however, did he have any valid reason for canceling or was it just spur of the moment? I mean he could be a little nervous about meeting and so he will call it, and then as the date gets closer his nerves settle in and then he runs.

Well I'm facing a similar situation except it's just a guy that wants to be my friend. But if he initiates and cancels . . .maybe you should deny him a few times. If he is still relentless in getting you to do something, then he might actually be noble in his cause.

Answer 3

well though one u know.. but for me i guess another chance will be fine.. but this time its ur turn.. ask him out like" hey remember we should go for dinner?" can we have dinner?" then this time u catch him there and then.. asked him out if he said yes then go. then we will c what happened form that point and when worst things happened like he did not show up" then this time its for u to confornt him... ask him why he did not show up? "u said yes and now u did not even bother to call or sms me that ur not coming" but of course confornt him in a way thats its not like ur fighting with him.. we should also understand that he might have something important things to do... then ultimately its also time to move on a bit.. maybe he is just playing around with you but dont just close ur doors on him... just try and move on.. and when he tries to lure u back just play along... if he ask u out play along too.. but tell him this time there is no cancellation.... now if he did... then move on!

tell me what happened

Answer 4

I think it is all in your head. Just ask him what is it he is doing. Or play along with it. Do what he is doing to you. Invite him hen cancel. Use revers psychology, that always worked. It is how a friend found out I was bi. I hated him for that. Trick him into revealing what he is really doing. Reverse Psychology is the best tactic I can think of.

Answer 5

He is really into you but also scared.

He so wants to be close to you but then his nerves get to him.

I really think you should ask him out just once to see what happens.  When he says yes, give him a long hug to reassure him and build his confidence.

Answer 6

I think he might like you but is to scared to go out on a date with you.