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Question

okay,.. um where do i start.

so i like this guy that i shouldnt. he is in my class and im always thinking about him. When ever he talks to me i always have this big smile on my face and i think (he's talking to me again.)

the thing is, i really dnt want to like him and i shouldnt because he is a player. he goes out wif girls and then kind of cheats on them. he will be texting his girlfriend while on the other end flirting and texting another girl. to be honest wif u i have been on both ends wif this guy.

i hate guys like that.

but also he is so sweet naturally. he is a really nice guy by heart.

u see my problem, i cant get over him. what can i do?

Answer 1

Look, I have been in a situation like this. The guy is sweet, nice and funny, but he is like a huge player. And yeah it is kind of hard not to like him, but you have to try your best to avoid this guy. Well, not avoid, just not like. I mean talk to him and stuff, but don't let it get further than that.