-how can i change? please read.?

Question

i feel really unhappy at the moment. i feel like I'm doing the same things over and over again. I'm always having fights with the same people for pretty much the same reason. i feel like every thing's getting too hard.

i want to completely change my life:

a few new loving, caring friends

a boyfriend (doesn't happen because everyone thinks i like this one boy that I'm always with. but the truth is we're best friends, but no one understands that)

i want to be able to have fun again

every day i do the same thing, i just want things to be different.

please help me

Answer 1

Do you think that you are experiencing some depression? Irritability, loss of interest in things that used to give you pleasure and feeling stuck and overwhelmed are symptoms of depression. If you think that is a valid point then i would talk to your dr about getting set up with some medication and a counselor. It just may be the assistance you need to start being able to enjoy your life again.

Answer 2

It looks lack of confidence in you. Start thinking positive and gain your confidence by doing positive things and always keep smiling .One should be Optemestic and do works which are result oriented .Again I shall advice you  Be Positive Be Bold and  always keep smiling

Answer 3

You don't state your age so it's a little difficult to give you suggestions. Assuming you are still in school I would suggest that when the new school year starts you introduce yourself to classmates you don't know and start new friendships.  You could also get a part-time job (like maybe at McDonalds) which will also help you meet people.  Many teenagers re-visit their favorite fast food places often and you will get to know them.

Good luck!!

Answer 4

Only you can change this, start of by making small changes and hopefully the rest will fall into place. If your having the same fights with the same ppl why not stop arguing with them in the 1st place? Avoid the problems you should see them happening if they are reoccuring

Answer 5

i think you should do something you have been wanting to do that no one would think you do be spontaneous... but i know how you feel trust me