:o(....So Confused and Tired Of Waiting.... Advice?

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So Confused! And Tired of Waiting! Advice?

Alright, Well My husband and I are TTC, its only been about 2 1/2 months, and i have been taking pre-natal pills for 1 month(I know it can take a while). Any ways, I was suppose to have my period the 7th of this month, and I have yet to have it, but I have been having some weird not normally me systems such as,

♥ Cramping in my ovaries and lower stomach, horrible but not unbearable

♥ I all the sudden got some kind of sinus infection/ headaches (?)

♥ I have been urinating a lot ( but I usually do so its hard to tell if its more frequent than normal)

♥ I've been very irritable and moody almost picking arguments for no reason.

♥ Very tired and Sore

♥ The skin on my tummy feels like it is being stretched, feels itchy and tight.

♥ Sometimes I get a dull pain (almost like someone is pushing their finger from the inside out) on my stomach around my belly button area mostly but sometimes it more off to one side than the other.

♥ Discharging a lot more than normal.

♥ Lower back pains.

♥ Very Gassy

♥ Last week 8/14 I had a drop of a peachy/pink colored blood about the size of a dime in my discharge. ( implantation maybe?)

♥ Look like I am getting a little bit bigger in the tummy area but have not gained any weighed.

♥ Sometimes I could eat everything others I get full after a bite of something that doesn't even sound good but I force myself to eat because I haven't been hungry that whole day I have to eat something.

♥ Dizzy/Nauseous here and there but it only last about 30 sec. and I don't ever get sick from it.

♥ No matter what i do i can't get confortable, im not comfortable laying in any position, or standing or sitting its annoying!

♥ My nipple are a little bit bigger and they are darker, but my breast and areolas are still the same.

Symptoms I am not having;

♥ Sore breast

♥ Darkened Areolas

♥ Morning Sickness

I have Tested like almost everyday since my missed period, but don't see nothing but the stupid BFN!!!! ( I am obsessive with testing I am so anxious).

So I go not know what is going on can anyone give me there opinion, serious opinion on what is going on with me?

♥ Why do have all these symptoms?

♥ Why hasn't AF come?

♥ Why am I was getting all these BFN but still no AF two weeks late?

♥ I have Early PT's they detect at 20. (can you get lower detection than that?

♥ I am really scarred to get a blood test because I am Scarred of the answer i'll get back!

♥I do appreciate all real answers. Thank you! ♥

♥*♥*♥*♥*♥*Baby*♥*Dust*♥*♥*♥*♥*♥ ~~~~~ To all those who are TTC!

AF= Aunt Flow (period!)

BFN= Big Fat Possitive

Answer 1

Are you tracking your cycles, taking your basel temp every day and tracking Cervical Fluids?  If you aren't, I'd start; it is very helpful when TTC.

I do have questions.  First, did you ovulate this month (and if so, how do you know)?  Second, did anything stressful happen this month between days 10-16 or so (stress can delay ovulation)?  Third, when are you taking the HPTs?  Have you taken one first thing in the morning?  Finally, if you ovulated, did you have unprotected s*x on the right days?

After thinking through all that and you know exactly when you ovulated and that you had s*x during the days before ovulation, I'd call your doctor and get a blood test to make sure.  

GL to you.  :-)

Answer 2

you can get 10 miu tests off the internet.i would try them.if neg then go for a blood test to be sure.my most noticable symptoms are sore tender b***s but you do have alot of pregnancy type symptoms too...good luck!!

Answer 3

Have you been using the same hpt? I used to use first response but this month changed to Clear Blue digital and yep i got my bfp! All the symptoms you have described are definitely pregnancy symptoms and if i was you i'd go get a clearblue box (get the 2 pack!) and take a test first thing in the morning and again the following morning. Best of luck, i'm convinced your gonna be a mommy

Answer 4

you really need to see your doctor and tell them what's going on.  and yes, get a blood test.  it'll be a relief to know for sure.

and maybe try not to be so obsessive with the testing?  if you're that anxious it could very well be throwing your cycle off.