????question for GUYS only!!!!! i need answers, not naive for asking???please help????

Question

i know you see this question all the time but i still have to ask, what turns you on? what would make you approach a woman to ask her out??? I'm mid thirties and have only been asked out 3 times in my life!!!! i look as good as other women (really i do ) what am i doing wrong ? what am i not doing right??? often i think i am seen as one of the guys,keep in mind i dress up for special occasions. what makes you want to be with a woman when you first see her???

Answer 1

it is always looks that makes a man approach a woman you cant tell how her personality is from seeing her. anyone who says that is blind and stupid personality yeah right that may keep you there but it wont make you go to a woman you dont know .its all about the body and how she presents herself  

Answer 2

You could just be having some bad luck. I would try to make friends first and then go from there. Instead of the big "going out" deal, make friends first. Keep yourself looking neat and clean and on the s**y side but not S****y looking.  

Answer 3

Looks sometimes start me interested, but personality gets me more interested.  I have went out with good lookers, but rotten personalities and some that weren't 10's but had a nice personality.  I think that you are just having bad luck about it.  If you would like to talk more, send me an email or offline in messenger.  Good Luck.

Answer 4

You probably aren't doing anything wrong i don't think. Many guys are too chicken to approach women to ask them out, i know I was!! lol. As for myself, what turns me on is a really stylish woman in the way that she holds herself and attires herself. And one that doesn't say too much, and has the right body language. Maybe you're just trying too hard. Just be yourself and relax. There is a nice fellow out there for you for sure. Don't worry about it :)  

Answer 5

flirt a little, mabey you should ask them out because they could be in the same situation as you

Answer 6

i don,t see a question like that here in the car section. go to dating and relationships, you probably get more answers.

Answer 7

When you look at a girl there are these things a man looks for in her:Are you attracted to her?

     Is she attracted to you?

     Is she nice?

     What do you have in common?

     Does she look like a complete slob?

     Is she the person everyone likes or hates?

Good luck out there LOL

Answer 8

Wear meat cologne.  

Answer 9

Nothing.

This doesn't belong in the car section btw.

Answer 10

as a guy i know that when girls leave hints it drives us fricken nits cause we dont know what it means. so some things that you could do would be to just be smiley when your around him, and as a girl you are alowed to aproach him, some guys find it s**y when the girl makes the first move.and play hard to get being a guy saying that goes against every manlaw but when you meet him then almost act like your not interested it drives us madd and makes us want u even more.but most of all just go with your gut instinct

Answer 11

Are you needing Maintenance and Repairs yourself?

I know this doesn't belong in this section.

But you might as well ask them out, cuz nowadays, with such a high probability of the male counterpart asking you out, and most likely you are wondering about the co-workers. Is they don't want to be fired because they approached you and then you (general for women, please understand that) go and complain to the boss, and now he has to make the decision of what to do with him

Answer 12

i can tell your smart cuz you posted the question in the cars section to get male opinion only..anyway to be honest with you waht you need to do is put on some high heels and a mini skirt and a lil make up and act soft and s**y if u know what i mean n i promiss u you ll be asked out a million times now if ur aiming for someone parteculer u might have to give the guy a hint cuz some guys are affraid of being turned down so if u give him a hint .........i think you know what i mean now

good luck (-:

Answer 13

you are a person running around in the dark

no emails no ims

you need to open up and become a person first

while running around in the dark you will bump into walls

Answer 14

Several things attract men, I don't think you can really put an answer to this. Some guys are purely physically attracted, mostly younger guys. The older men usually want a woman that is mentally stable. Personally, I'm a face person. A pretty face, hair, eyes, gets my attention. Then it's conversation. Are they deep or are they an airhead. Everyone is different. It's like going to a car lot, not everyone wants a green 4 door that gets good mileage. It just depends what they are looking for too. If they want a roll in the hay, act S****y, you'll get a date. If they want a committed relationship, be professional and strong, but show your sensitivity. I have wondered the same thing about the opposite s*x. There is nothing wrong with me. I hear how good looking, handsome, understanding, sensitive, etc. etc., nobodies breaking down my door, of course I'm married and that kinda puts a damper on the dating thing. My advice to you is to decide what "You" want. Be yourself and be happy. Don't worry about whats wrong with you, that makes you look insecure. There is someone else out there looking for you, they just haven't found you yet. There is someone for everyone, keep your chin up. If you just want to be asked out you are settling, this won't make you happy. Get what you want. I'll ask you out if you just want your numbers up!!! Good luck to you and don't worry about it, be yourself.

Answer 15

I look at personality all the time its not just the looks. Well I look at looks but also at her personality, how she is and basically getting to know her well. When you get to know her well you understand how she is. Guys who don't care about personality and care about looks, sometimes they break up due to that they don't understand about them. Basically what you need to do is find a person who has a personality that's good and an outgoing person who suits best for you. Other than that you're doing good, don't worry you'll always find someone when the time is right.