"Feminised" Men Acceptance...

Question

Hearing a lot of complaints about "feminised" men....and a lot of blame put onto feminism for "creating" them.

Is not personality developed, by some nature, some nurture, and some other factor they have yet to pin down. Other wise you wouldn't end up with one load outgoing sibling and one shy reserved sibling. They both have similar genes and a similar environment....so there must be a third factor that makes them who they are.

So if these "feminised" men...are simply being who they are. Why bash them? What is wrong with that. It's perfectly acceptable to have a shy, weak and quiet woman...and to have an out going, loud strong one.

Why do we accept such personality variations in women....yet bash them in men??

Plus differences in personity is not a "new" thing...it's not a recent invention. There has ALWAYS been variasions in each and every human. It's not like we had and lost the cookie cutters. Not All men of the past were macho ripped war machines.

Feminised Men Are Not New,.They Are Being True To Themselves....Stop Bashing Them!!!

Wouldn't it be a sign of good changes in our culture, that people are "starting" to accept people for who they are?

Answer 1

Well both women and men dont accept them.

And feminsim is well known for its drives on social engineering.

If it accepted men - it wouldnt be a problem.

Try and tell me stats that say men dont suffer from DV, rape or for that matter that he is commiting an act of violence for shouting back or disagreeing (one worthy of arrest). What about two people drunk engaging in s*x is rape, of her.

Stats that exclude men or only show men as aggressors have gone as far as the TV, books, radios, seminars, feminist organised seminars, goverment and the UN ito be involved in policy making.

Feminists didnt and dont accept men as they are, as they were or as they become more annoyed with this picture.

Answer 2

I think a lot of people have a misconception about what a feminized man really is.

While a feminized man is supposed to be a man who is not afraid to show is feminism or affectionate side, a lot of people twisted it into a man who is unwilling to stand his ground or in fact are in sexual preference of people of their same gender.

That's my little theory of why feminized and male feminist get bashed by others, including anti feminist females.

Answer 3

Part of the problem Rose is that feminized men are seen as embracing their feminine side, but repressing their masculine side (because apparently feminist doctrine has demonized expression of masculinity in men).

Maybe if feminism was more excepting of men embracing their masculine side and women with their feminine side, there would be less of this confusion.