"Friend" Crisis... What should i do ?

Question

Right, i used to be friends with this girl, and we had this big fall out just before summer holidays because i was off school for 2 days because i was ill and she thought i was lying then she thought i lied to make her jealous. (pathetic if you ask me). Now i just got a phone call from this girl that's friends with her saying that she wants to be friends with me because she misses me. Before we fell out she was always mad at me when i was off school because i was ill and she wasn't a very good friend. Anyways, i no it sounds silly but i don't no if i should be friends with her again or not. I just miss all the good times we had, but if we did become best friends again, things will never be the same again. What do you think ? Should i be friends with her or not ?

Answer 1

Listen Emmzy Nobodys really 100% genuinly your freind even your bestest freinds who you think would'nt talk smack about you Do so the reality of the situation is dont take people at face value if you want to be freinds with this girl be polite but not hostile DO NOT under any circumstances let your gaurd down !

Answer 2

No, not worth it.

Answer 3

me and my friend are always falling out about stupid things but i think if you are worried be friends with her again but not best friends.

Answer 4

Go for it and have a girlie chat and say to her that when your ill it isn't your fault, you can be away from school occasionally like she can be,  

Answer 5

Since you got this message through a third party, you don't have to do anything. Until the she has the courage to approach you herself, you can simply wait and see how it goes and say nothing to anyone. I don't believe in dealing with this through a messenger.

Answer 6

She sounds like a 'user'. She does not seem to know WHAT she wants. I would stay clear of her for your own piece of mind!  If she was REALLY a good friend she would not treat you the way she has!

Answer 7

be friends but not best friends if u get me, then if u argue agen u will not hav anymore trouble-trust me

Answer 8

why not...if you miss her then who cares, everyone has fights sometimes

Answer 9

do whatever you feel is right, if you miss her and want to be friends with her, then go back to her!

you might aswell :) you only live once and you may not see her when youre older, so just live life and get over it and be mates again!

good luck ;) xx

Answer 10

Talk to her and see how she acts and then decide. Give her last chance!