....."Get a life!".....?

Question

"Get a life!" Thats what my family constantly tells me! Im 18 years old and I cant stop being obsessed with celebrities such as Vanessa Hudgens. Its just that I feel like I can never have what she has or be like her cuz Im such a clutz, I'll never find a boyfriend like hers (even tho Im hot), I have no friends! How can I be exactly like her and be equal to her, have what she has instead of being so depressed and jealous? I just dont get why she was so blessed and not one little thing will ever let her down in her perfect little life? Does god favour her over everyone else!??

I follow her life because I dont have a life and Im on the verge of giving up. This is what I need to accomplish before I turn 19 next June:

1-GET FRIENDS (This school yr coming up is my last yr so last shot)

2-Get a bf kind of like Zac Efron but himself(no boys im interested in at school so ill have to meet him somewhere else)

3-Stop being a clutz

4-Get more into shape and fix my skin problems

PLEASE GIVE ME SUGGESTIONS TO THE 4 ABOVE! HOW I CAN FIX ALL THIS!!!!! IM RUNNING OUT OF TIME I HAVE ABOUT A YEAR LEFT!!!

Answer 1

You start by thinking about what you have(your blessings) you can see-walk-talk-think-ect ect. Then take ALL that energy you are wasting on thinking about what you don't have or who you can't be and turn it around. She didn't get where she is by thinking negative thoughts like you have been doing.Take the wasted time and use it to clear up your skin problems do some research on what will help your skin.take a class to build yourself up and be strong and proud of who you are.Then you will get new friends and guys by being positive and happy- no one wants to be around some one that is so negative about themselves . Get a new hair style .And it is never to late it isn't your last shot- God gave you this life to use it to learn and grow and be your best and you are showing your disrespect to him by what you are doing.NO ONE has a PERFECT life- it may seem like it but EVERYONE has problems - THEY DEAL with it and work through them YOUR NOT. Now get busy and do the right things to get where you want to be.

Answer 2

OH GOSH.

STOP> be yourself not someone else.

Answer 3

You dont need to be like vanessa, everybody is different for a reason. stop trying to be like her and start being yourself, You can do it =)

to get more friends, be happy smiley and always compliment people. when meeting someone new, always say their name. for example:

Your friend : " Gemma, this is my friend Hannah"

You : " nice to meet you Hannah"

This shows that you are confident and are out going.

Good luck =)

Answer 4

You need to gain some perspective.

You need to start focusing on yourself and loose this obsession with Vanessa Hudgens.

Ok so life isn't perfect - but I'm sure if you lived life as Vanessa Hudgens for a year you'd discover her life isn't perfect either.

You need to get some good things in your life - join some clubs, get some new friends and get out and enjoy yourself.  Join a sports club to shape up - start a beauty regime to sort your skin out, but most of all stop moping around and whinging and whining because your not on tv - and have some fun.

Think of all those people out there who don't have the things you have - imagine how much they want to trade places with you and then be thankful for all you have.

Answer 5

Perhaps you need to fix your attitude towards things first.