"Girls are so mean"; do you aggree?

Question

I personally do. I have had multitudes of experiences with mean girls that caused me much pain:

1) Girls bully me! Yes I am a guy yet they bully me and intimidate me, call me ugly and a freak even though I thought they were not very pretty themselves.

2) They bully each other! I was near a group of girls on the bus on the way home from school and they said things about other girls whom I thought they were close personal friends with, they were so hurtful I was shocked. Guys can be *** holes but this was ridiculous!

3) I annoyed a girl very slightly and apologized but 18!!! of her friends(that was the amount of girls she had in her pack) hastled me constantly for weeks and made me miserable

4) I got to know this girl who was really nice and I liked her so I asked her out, she just started ignoring me and she made her friends ignore me aswell which also made my life miserable.

It is funny that I NEVER get hastled by guys, I don't get it :P

What do you think?

Answer 1

Girls can be mean just as guys can, but you notice that the word ***** is used more than the word b*****d. more girls than guys are mean. but for me, its both. guys can be very cruel calling me ugly and fat to my face yet girls do it behind my back. :( its depressing.

Answer 2

Girls are vicious creatures, depending on what type. When I was in middle school, girls were MEAN.

Answer 3

Maybe coz ur a wuss... Gee try flirting that must work and punch them if they want violence give them violence!!!

Answer 4

It's simple really

We enjoy the power.

Answer 5

Younger girls in particular can be very mean especially when influenced by their friends (which is usually the case).  Get used to it.

Answer 6

Girls are b*****s.  I HATE those stupid b*****s yet for some ****** up reason idiot guys still like them.  All humans are dickheads.  I'm in a bad mood btw.

Answer 7

girls can be just as bad as guys except we dont get physical. if ur not a girl u dont understand how it works.

Answer 8

To say all girls are bad is just as inaccurate as saying all guys are bad.

When someone tells me "All the women I've dated have turned out to be b*****s" or "All the women I've dated have turned out to be @$$es" I have to conclude, the problem is actually them.

Not that they are doing anything to deserve being treated that way, other than continuing to choose their dates from a particular stock of men or women.

However there are fundamental difference in general, between the ways men and women behave.

Biologically speaking, men put a lot of emphasis on looks. However this does not mean good looking men always have a good looking woman because men also have a tendency to think good looking women are out of their legue. One could argue a biological reason for this is a man with a fairly homely woman could might feel much more secure that she would not cheat on him.

So now lets talk about women. Women are physically no where as strong as men. Biologically speaking, a woman, who's usually gets stuck with the child rearing, has to figure out ways to get around this, and thus, women can be somewhat manipulative, though this isn't always in a negative way which takes advantage of the man.

So women's defensive interaction with men usually centers around trying to reason with him, or using wit. Womens defensive interaction with other women usually involves using insult or wit. Either way, while a man might wage war with muscle, a woman can usually only wage it with words and cunning. Of course words and cunning really don't kill, and so, if it's woman vs. woman in the vie for a man, or simply even when the object is to be the alpha woman, her goal is not to kill, but to keep the other woman down.

Wherease a man might just go bash the other guy's head in....at least in the past.

So men fight like dogs. They fight and get it over with. One accepting the lower status, or they fight to the death.

Cats seldom fight to the death, nor do they fight and get it over with. They fight, and occasionally one accepts a lower status which it will challenge periodically, or neither will concede and they will just fight every day. So women in this sense are like cats.

Picking on men: Much like a man might want an easy woman on a casual date, but a monogamous virgin for a wife, a woman might want a man who will follow every command for a boyfriend, but a man who will stand up for himself (and thus to protect her when she is in danger) for a husband.

How do they test which one you are? They push your buttons.

Of course not all woman do this in such horrible ways just like not all men make a move on the first date.

But whether we are good or bad we all have some degree of biological tendencies.

Like I said, it doesn't make them any worse than men though.