I have a friend who I've known since the end of 7th grade. We're going into 10th now. Ever since we've become close friends, she gets mad at me for the tiniest things. The first time was in 8th grade speech class when we were given the choice of doing a stage project alone, or memorizing a duet with a partner. She wanted me to be her partner but I didn't want to do it, becuase it would be just as easy to get a good grade and do a stage project. She got so mad at me and wouldn't talk to me for months. I would have avoided her, but we give her a ride home after school, so I can't. Then she got mad at me at lunch one time becuase I offered her half of a cookie, and offered my other friend a whole cookie. She didn't talk to me for months. She got mad at me during summer school too, and I don't even know why. I always tried to talk to her or just say idle things, but she'd either not answer, or she be all bitter and ignorant when she did answer. Now she is mad at me becuase I told my other friend when her birthday was. She's saying things like "I thought I found someone I could trust" and "that shows how much you consider me a friend" All I ever say to her is "I'm sorry" because, really, what does she want me to do? I can't go back in time. I would really like to be friends with her still, but when we are friends, she always wants me to basically do her school work and tell her answers and she wants me to go to the same college as her and stuff but I have a life of my own too. She's a really good person, but I don't know how to please her when all she does is get mad at me. I often have a hard time telling people "No, I just don't want to" or being stern with anyone. Do you think she is taking advantage of me becuase I try to be nice? She never gets mad at any of our other friends. Please help....
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