"Settling Down" would you tell your mate everything about past relationships?

Question

How much is too much? What are the limits, benefits, and possible disasters?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

I would not unless it is a health issue and you can harm the one you love. What happens in the pass stays in the pass. You are building a future with your love one, look towards the future do not look back.

Answer 3

I think the most important thing to tell your mate is whether or not you've had a sexually transmitted disease. And also if you have any ex boyfriends or girlfriends that would try to physically harm them. Other than that everything else is your choice.

It doesn't matter how many people you slept with if you've never had a disease. And everything else is extra.  

Answer 4

I would divulge the big things that could and will affect your r'ship.  That doesn't mean telling him every guy you've ever dated but instead, telling him about those experiences that helped shape the woman you are today.  For instance, when I met my now husband, I told him about a very traumatic experience that happened in my past.  He hadn't asked but I felt it was an important thing to share if he wanted to know the REAL me....good, bad, w/ the scars and all.  You want to know that the person who claims to love you, loves the REAL you, lumps and all.  I had much more dating experience than my husband when we met, and I could tell that made him uncomfortable. So, I never discussed my past casual r'ships.  He does know about any r'ships that were serious though.  It's not something we dwell on or talk about anymore but when you're just starting to date, I think it can be very important....just pick the right timing!  Obviously you don't want to tell a guy too much too soon or you'll scare him right off!! :)