"love and life happen once"..is it true?

Question

tell me about the philosophy of both life n love

Answer 1

Your not living in your life without love

Answer 2

It is true life is a one time thing, we have the potential to eternalize life through faith. If we choose not to survive all that we have acheived in our mortal life which has eternal value returns to our creator, for all that is of God returns to God. When we die if we choose not to survive we will be as though we never were, our name will be wiped from all records.

God is love and gives love to all His children to experience hoping that the child will return this gift of love to Him, as it is on Earth with every loving parent.

Answer 3

Love can happen twice, but life can only happen once to a person.

Answer 4

hmm. they both suck :)

Answer 5

Love can happen more than once. Loving isn't hard (for some people). It is just a challenge with all the "pollution" in one's life. Some people find it once and got it right on the first time. Some people need to try a few times. Love is really a science too. It's all in the brain. Our life experiences predict how we fall in love and to whom. Our love experiences predict how our life will continue. Whether for good or for bad. It begins during childhood and grows throughout your life. Love for family, spouses, or friends. You notice everything is affected by love or the lack of love. That makes it an important part of life. Movies and music can't go without it! The question isn't can they happen more than once. The question is: Is there life without love?

Answer 6

well both are one part u cant live with out life and u cant live with out love

Answer 7

No. Love is what you are. What you think of is life really isn't.

Answer 8

Life is a one time chance..

Love can happen more then once.. but NEVER at the SAME time (:

Answer 9

life is not life without love. love is not love without life. God gave us life so we can choose to love him. PERIOD. when it all comes down to it.  

Answer 10

On the face of it, I think it's false on both counts.  

First, Life:

Everyone assumes that their life is unique and that it'll only happen once.  Materialists will say that's all there is.  Those more metaphysically inclined will say there's something that "lives on" after death, and some of them will say that "soul" continues eternally in Heaven, while others will say it cycles through a string of future lives while it learns its "lessons."  

Personally, I've been thinking about it like this: what if your soul isn't living one unique life at a time?  What if it's living ALL lives simultaneously?  Maybe it's a universal consciousness, and the "you" part of the collective soul just moves from one person's set of life experiences to another, never knowing (at any given point) that you have "already" played the part of everyone around you, and lived every life there has ever been.  Maybe instead of reincarnating into new lives, you just incarnate into different simultaneous lives.  Either way, I don't think it's justifiable to say that life only happens once.

Next, Love:

I think the idea of the "one true love" is a delusion.  By it's very nature, love has to be subjective; it's a feeling.  Thus it will change over time, sometimes growing stronger and sometimes weaker.  By the same token, the "love" you feel for a boyfriend or girlfriend when you're young certainly doesn't stick around as you get older and move on into new relationships.  So does that mean you didn't REALLY feel love back then, because it didn't last?  If that's the case, how do you know you're REALLY feeling it now?  I think love is something you tap into, like a cosmic force.  It's out there, and certain situations or people act as catalysts that allow you to connet with it.

On the other hand, from the preceding perspectives both life and love are in a sense eternal, and therefore only happen once (though they both go on indefinitely).

Answer 11

I believe life happens once. This is it. Love can happen as many times as you choose. I believe that we need different people depending on the period of life we are in. I am glad I did not end up with my high school love we could not have grown old together. I also don't believe in grand or romantic love. Yes we have a period of giddiness if you will where it feels like everything we are is bound up in the other person, it passes and we become two seperate individuals sharing in a relationship. I also think that it's not about getting it right but admitting when you don't. I don't feel loving more than one man diminishes anything for me, but I don't value love as the be all end of life either. I value being in a relationship that adds but does not fill a hole. I don't expect people to fix me nor do I want to be a fixer. I don't want to change people or be changed myself. Friends and lovers are important but the love as in romance, candies, flowers, rings, marriage not so much. Love has been commercialized, held up to a standard no man or women can ever hope to reach, thanks to everything we read and watch.  And no matter how intelligent we are we cannot be helped but be swayed by this tripe from time to time. I really don't have to have the wedding the ring or any of the trappings. I just want the friendship and the intimacy that a true connection brings. I don't like to label things with true love and such. I am 33 I have loved three men, I have had three connections that went beyond, that were real. I guess it was love,  but all I know is I was better with them, and when that changed I left. I don't regret one relationship. Nor am I searching for the one. I don't believe in that, I see too many unhappy people who believe they can only be happy with the one, hey I am the one, I'm happy with me, and if I find some who adds to my life be it a friend or lover then I can say that's lovely.  I believe I will experience love or something like it again maybe it will be the last, in the meantime I am not worried about doing it right or why I haven't the one, whose to say I'm not doing it exactly the way I need to do it. What's right for me may not be right for the next person, but I can't see anything wrong with having as many love's as I need in this life as long I don't hurt anyone and I add to their life as well. True love, not worried about finding it or defining it, how about a True Life, a life examined. I live a life examined and through that I find honesty in myself and my relationships, it has kept me out of dead ends and kept from searching for a false romantice love. Instead I don't search at all, but it always finds me.

Answer 12

Life happens once, you only get one life and with that there are no second chances but with life is found love- true love, love that has exsisted ever since the beginning and is written in the stars. You can only love once thats all the chance love needs is once. real love doesn't end, doesn't fade aways, it waits and thrives. People confuse love with so many other emotion but you see love isn't emotion is something so undescrible but you feel it and it causes emtions, you can see it, touch it, live it and never live with out it. In my eyes, love and life happens once and intwines with eachother as love leads life.  

Answer 13

For some genuine insight and advice,

"Soul Mates and Twin Flames," Elizabeth Clare Prophet,

"Sexual Force or the Winged Dragon," O. M. Aivanhov,

"For Women Only," Shaunti Feldhahn,

"When God Writes Your Love Story," Eric and Leslie Ludy.

Answer 14

i believe life happens once, when you die your gone, no reincarnation, no after life, just nothingness. As far as love i believe it's an attraction that can become so strong your willing to do anything for someone or that can fade to the point that you want to kill this person. I think it can happen as many times as you want it to or not at all. It's not a single emotion but rather a compilation of feelings, philosophies, and circumstances.

Answer 15

You fall in love more than once in your life.  EVERY love is different.  You learn you grown and you move on always keeping the lessons learned form each relationship.  I know you mean romantic love and it's possible to love more than one person at a time.  What makes it right or wrong is whether or not you act on it.  

The meaning of life is every person is put on this earth to learn and to absorb all that you can in teh short time you have.

Answer 16

you might fall in love several times... but 'magic' happens only once.  

Answer 17

Just once?   I sure hope not!

Answer 18

go ask an old person