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"my husband kissed a girl from work when he was really drunk, what do you guys think?

by Guest59569 | earlier

he says it doesn't mean anything and it won't happen again,do you guys think it meant nothing and it won't happening again? or is it once a cheater always a cheater?

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It was only a kiss , at least he didn't sleep with her. Sometimes when you are drunk you do and say things you don't mean. Just keep an eye on him and don't let him drink with out you being around.
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How about "once a drunk, always a drunk"?

Address the underlying issue. If he learned to control his liquor, then there'd be no problem here.
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A drunken kiss means nothing, but I would monitor his drinking habits
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i believe that it doesn't matter how much alcohol you drink that just gives you an excuse to say you did something that you wanted to do when you where sober
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I've personally seen sane responsible men, turn to idiotic zombies when they're drunk at company parties.

It's a good thing everyone gets drunk, so everyone does something stupid and it's a code that no one speaks of it later.

Did your husband tell you?  If he did, he sure felt guilty about it to tell you.

I wouldn't think anything of it, but I would definitely want to be pampered and have everything I want bought by him - at least for a month.  His stupidity deserves a consequence.
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I would think that he's attracted to this girl and while he was drunk and his inhibitions were gone, he kissed her.

I wouldn't ruin a good marriage over a kiss, but if its a bad marriage...well....

I also wouldn't trust the man for a good, long, time and I would tell him that he isn't allowed to drink anymore. I mean, if he's getting so drunk that he makes bad decisions, theres a problem.
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If he told you about it its probably a mistake that could happen to anyone. I would just ask him not to drink when you weren't around again at least to that extent. Just remember we all make mistakes if you really love him.
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He is very immature; first, to be drinking to that extent and, second, to have kissed another woman because he is married and supposedly committed to you. Think long and hard about this incident; unfortunately, it's probably not the first time and it may not be the last. I hope it is, but one never knows about these things. Is he a really awesome person in every other way? Do you have children? If not, kick him to the curb!
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if he really means it, he will attend AA meetings and get counceling from church members, etc. If he does nothing to prove he knows he messed up and is willing to work at it..... look for a lawyer.
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If he told you about it, it's probably a one time thing he feels terrible about. I'll give him the benefit of the doubt. But make him quit that job and join AA.
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It depends on how he act when he drinks.If this is the first time then let it go,but i would tell him he need to watch what he drinks.If it always happens maybe he need not to drink.Good luck hope this helps...
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Be careful. Keep an eye on him but don't crowd him.

Stop telling him what to do and he won't have any reason to kiss anyone but you - his loving wife (rather than his nagging ol' battleaxe).

See what I mean?
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In my honest opinion, he is a cheater. If given a chance to have a kiss, or anything else from another girl, he will take it.
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I THINK HE REALLY MESSED UP TAKE UP COUNSELING AND RELATION SHIP HELP WHY DID HE REALLY DO THIS ITS SAID THAT YOU ACT ON YOU DESIRE WHEN DRUNK YOUR TRUE FEELING COME OUT WELL DID HE WANT TO DO THIS DID HE NOT FEEL LIKE HE GETS WHAT HE WANTS AND NEEDS FROM YOU IS HE DOING THIS TO GET YOU ATTENTION YOU NEED TO DO COUNSELING YOU GUYS ARE MARRIED NOT JUST IN A RELATIONSHIP SO DON'T LET THESE PEOPLE THROW AROUND DIVORCE LIKE IT SO EASY YOU MARRIED FOR A REASON BUT AT THE SAME TIME IF THECOUNSELING DON'T WORK YOU MAY WANT TO TAKE THATIN MIND GOOD LUCK
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it might have not meant anything to your husband but this girl probably has developed feelings for him. Be careful if you are going to forgive then forgive and don't bring it up again in the heat of a fight. This might lead to trouble later though with the girl and possibly your husband.
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Give him one more chance and see what happens.
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I think you should get a divorce if he does this a lot. He shouldn't be drinking, and kissing that girl. You need to find a nice husband that can carry you through the good and bad.

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Sounds like he's a pretty good guy who had some very normal attractions to another woman that he would have normally ignored. But the alcohol gave him the courage to do something he otherwise wouldn't have done. Since he told you, I wouldn't worry too much as long as he saves his drinking for times when you are around. My one reservation here - and only you have enough info to know this - is could he have actually taken this any farther than a kiss & has only confessed to the kiss? If you're sure he didn't,then move on & let it go. IF you have any doubts, watch carefully for a while to see if anything else turns up.
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